Even we don't get it why, but if you get closer to the society, it's culture, it's norms and and laws you understand it more. for example conflict with a neighbor is everywhere and it's constructive -in our society if someone drags you in to a verbal abuse you can sue him and he will be punished not formal constitutiona law but community norms and laws.In Gurage having a gun or other wepons is a big shame and the who is known to have will face exclusion. Not to be perfectt I think it's the way we are raised!🥺