“I’ll be a warrior so my son can be a merchant, so their son can be a poet”
2026-09-26 19:35:01
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Fox :
“My grandfather studied war, so my father could study law, so I could study art .”
2026-09-27 00:16:57
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SayingTheQuietPartOut :
Rice is Viet
2026-09-26 18:35:01
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drifting away :
As a former Irish Chinese this video was educative
2026-09-26 18:15:45
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mayorbatman :
The era when your family emigrated makes a difference too. If you’re first/second gen Gen X or Millenial, your family probably emigrated out of the abject poverty and terror of the cultural revolution. If you’re younger millenial/gen Z, they probably came from the rising entrepreneurship classes. If you’re coming now, your family is likely to be prosperous and established back home and you have more options.
2026-09-26 21:41:16
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LJ :
I am gen 2 and only date non Asian women
2026-09-26 22:07:39
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niphtie :
what you’re saying is that it’s the same as other communities and not interesting at all.
2026-09-26 18:50:24
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Jackster :
I wonder if it’s really about minority to here versus this is simply how assimilation works. In other words if a white person moved to asia, likely he would marry an asian person and their baby would also assimilate further til third gen- assimilated.
2026-09-26 20:23:55
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jessekado :
Any other second gen’s that didn’t marry within the ethnicity but still had to marry an immigrant/second gen? I needed someone that knows how to hustle and puts the emphasis on family cuz we needed to get it out the mud together. I couldn’t be with anyone privileged. Now I’ve got an viet Albanian American baby 😂
2026-09-27 15:46:23
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mattinthelidl :
Whats the 4th gonna be then?
2026-09-26 19:23:11
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hkdl95 :
Currently the first generation of Chinese have high marry and low divorce rates. It will be interesting to see the third Gen marriage and divorce rates.
2026-09-27 07:57:08
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Ptnbgr :
Gen 3. Opening business back home in china
2026-09-27 02:01:40
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georgeyuan67 :
Everyone was coming in a different way. Since 1980, most of Chinese coming to USA were with college degrees. They pursue high-tech industries, and their lives are pretty good. Their kids are mostly successful too, active in investment banking, AI and healthcare (doctors).
2026-09-26 22:21:41
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Ricky's watches 🤑 :
will there even be a substantial amount of 3rd gens? like who even wants kids nowadays?
2026-09-27 03:31:19
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A :
I thought more like: instead of physician and lawyer archetype, becoming open to letting kids become phDs of all subjects - literature, Asian American studies, economics, ecology, plant biology, materials science, history, etc.
2026-09-26 20:19:57
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Jason :
I mean I’m technically fourth gen Irish and German but in reality I celebrate st Patrick’s day, eat some German foods and that about it.
2026-09-26 18:22:26
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chriscupy81 :
this is why people like rice and ray are important in american culture. they broke the shy nerdy asian sterotype that exists in media. rice is one of the goats of social media
2026-09-26 20:47:44
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American Culture Icons :
The statistics is breakdown of Asian-Asian couples. The statistics of Asian and all non-Asian is around 15-30%
2026-09-27 00:00:19
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huntorcs :
2026-09-27 07:07:41
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vegemities :
laufey mentioned
2026-09-26 21:29:59
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klattter :
I am German/Irish one of only 2 families in my larger extended family that did not marry an Italian person. Almost every cousin of mine is German/Irish/Italian. Now the next generation is marrying Latinos. We are all lapsed Catholics together. All of this creates amazing food and learning to swear in multiple languages.
2026-09-27 05:39:32
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88keys :
So is it worth it to work so hard lol
2026-09-26 22:54:47
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masks :
I would just like to point out that Laufey is half Icelandic and half Chinese who later moved to the USA
2026-09-27 00:49:01
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Guyg :
almost like there is precedent for it......
2026-09-26 18:53:28
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JeffreyD20 :
1st
2026-09-26 17:54:18
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