@splittingseason: NOBODY TALKS ABOUT HOW HUMILIATING IT IS TO KEEP CHASING SOMEONE WHO KEEPS PULLING AWAY #bpd #borderlinepersonalitydisorder #borderline #bpdtiktok #borderlinepersonality

🥓Bejkonik🥓 :

Ppl with BPD often find themselves drawn to avoidant types, probably because of past hurts. I heard this one line that really hit me: "Don't lose your mind for someone who doesn't mind losing you." That quote just stuck with me. I still get upset and feel terrible sometimes, but I'm not chasing anyone anymore. It's tough, really tough, but it's totally something I can do and you can do this too.

Savanah🌸 :

Me right now. I’m chasing, he reading and not responding

xXLilithXx :

It's worse if you're Polyamorous bc you literally have other options but for some reason you still can't let go of that one toxic person 😤 & then the whole polycule is clowning on you

Love❌💪 :

The story of my life- year 3, smh🖤

❥・𝓚𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 𝓜𝓪𝓻𝓲𝓮. :

This is what I’m dealing with ending right now. I am in my car alone man. For 3 days

Benny6dimes :

I just used the time to do cool stuff like fishing, hunting camping, visiting friends, BBQ and cook things you haven't cooked before. You can't let a shift like that bother you too much. Most of the time these people can't help it. They process fear in a way we can't empathize with. When you give them space, they always come back. All we have to do is continue to be as cool as we've always been.

Robb :

My ex has been doing this to me for over a year straight. The last 6 mo has killed me

Morgan :

it's called manipulation

burkthatt :

then they breadcrumbing and then they ghost...

KatietheSaint :

I just made my cut off game way too strong I can't be getting attached to people like that. if they're playing games, I'm out.

Baebii🖤🥀 :

This mf moved 1000 miles away n i have him blocked but deep down im telling myself hes coming back n this shit is literally consuming me, mind you I’m pregnant with his child so it makes it even harder to try to let go. So embarrassing and draining i literally beg the universe to take him out of my brain because everything im trying to do isnt working.

noel🐍✨ :

it’s absolutely mind boggling knowing others can treat people with such disrespect and expect them to want to stay.

BirdzFlyinHighh🕊️ :

The worst part is being highly aware of this reality and still not being able to let go. Somewhere deep inside you feel like they care but are just really messed up too. It does suck to be on the more (intensely) painful side of this dynamic.

Social Media :

constantly questioning where I stand. gave me a boundary I didn't know I needed, fuck going with the flow

Bluecirkels :

I can’t anymore, it hard 💔💔💔

CandyCoated5664 :

You have to stop the cycle. You have to save yourself. Yes, it will hurt and it sucks. Just block them.

Amata Mélitta :

I let this happen to me for 4 years and 3 weeks ago I finally let go but I'm having withdrawals and feel like I'm never gonna get over him

Htdakillswitch :

Kay♡ :

Me dating I presume a DA dude .-.

Asay7 :

It makes you not give a crap.

Catchy Name Here :

Trying to break away now

Elizabeth Lynn :

I have finally let go. quit chasing.... the hurt is awful... Ive had to block them to break my cycle....

Sally May 😜🐱😘❤ :

Having bpd and being with an avoidant is actual hell