@simlira: Are you my friend or just waiting for your chance? #MaleFemaleFriendship #FriendshipBoundaries #DatingExpectations #PlatonicFriendship #realtalk
Depends. Maybe he genuinely likes you as a person and instead of waiting for a chance, he is waiting for his romantic feelings to die… obviously it’s more often the first one but still… he has to respect your decision above all, that’s what’s important
2026-09-28 17:26:23
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Jamie :
If we were friends, but you weren't interested in turning that friendship into something else, then I would still be happy to be your friend since friendships can be really important as well.
2026-10-23 12:18:49
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Rexceed :
your partner should be your best friend. if they see you as their best friend how could they put effort into other relationships.
2026-09-27 09:49:59
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RaiQuu :
guys 100% of the time stay friends because they think ur hot
dont mean they want anything from you, some men just cant control lust
2026-09-29 01:29:20
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JKenny :
Most of my closest friends are women. I always got asked if I was waiting to date my best friend, or if we had in the past. It confused me because I just enjoy being with people.
2026-09-26 21:07:02
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Neems :
am I really a friend or am I just there to be filler
2026-09-27 11:13:21
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MissAnique :
i have some friends that i can be friends with even after they told their feelings, nit many can be like that but some can and those are genuan friends
2026-09-27 18:52:14
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Billy Jack Mcleod :
or hear me out eventually you get tired of being used drama playing the game or dating bad guys or Fboys. Then you realize you had a good or great human being next to you and there for you the whole time and he happens to a guy you can date etc etc.
2026-09-27 14:31:45
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Yoru :
Nope, not if they’re actively waiting around for a “chance.” At that point there’s an ulterior motive behind the friendship. I think it’s better to just be honest about how you feel, get your answer, and respect whatever that answer is. Hiding it while secretly hoping they’ll eventually choose you isn’t healthy for either person.
2026-09-27 04:36:30
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jojotojo.167 :
Is it realy such a Bad thing waiting for someone for that Person
2026-10-02 04:53:05
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AeroSky12 :
Yeah you can be friends but it really sucks when you have romantic feelings for a girl and you know they aren't really one to date people and the last 2 people they dated treated them like shit and cheated on them. You just have to sit there and watch it happen, watch them get hurt by guys who do what you would never do and your unable to do anything about it or give them the relationship you know they deserve because they rejected you.
2026-10-09 18:29:00
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Random Wooloo :
Oooo this subject, 100% they should be happy to be your friend. But if they’re only your friend cause they’re interested in you romantically, then they’re not really your friend now are they? That’s how I see it. Wanting a chance with someone you’re friends with crosses some boundaries, but ultimately…the best kinds of relationships come naturally. I think it’s nice you brought this up.
2026-09-28 02:58:41
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Meek :
It’s a complicated question that has a complicated answered. It really just depends. Good luck everybody
2026-09-27 08:42:05
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SukiroSupido :
Yeah sorry, but I wont stay friends with someone who rejects me, or i guess if I reject someone, but we know thats not gonna happen
2026-09-30 23:06:31
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alexdark09 :
i actually have many girl who are my friends. i aint waiting for a chance. I just prefer having friends that are girls like them.
2026-09-26 18:38:05
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Quentin :
I mean I would say yes but my problem is I would also drop in a heartbeat if she would give me a chance
2026-10-01 07:07:17
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ChainSaw :
I'm a guy and I have a guy friend I think. but I need advice. we've been online friends for a long time now. but we hardly speak to each other. like every few years I reach out to him and see how he's going but he never reaches out to me. so what does that mean are we still friends?. because at this point I feel like we're just strangers saying hi sometime in a year. I just don't know what to do. is it a friendship that just ended and I should move on or should I still keep being friends with them?
2026-09-28 15:47:33
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mrdingus4 :
I've stayed friends after being told I see you as a friend or brother. it's soul crushing.
I don't recommend it and think that I just needed more respect for my self.
I don't think anyone means harm but it just hurts.
2026-10-01 07:35:23
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Viper :
I have a friend i used to like back when we first met and god damn am I glad we didn't date and just stayed friends dodged a bullet fr
2026-09-27 15:12:55
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⛧♱𝖘𝖑𝖔𝖙𝖍𝖞♱⛧ :
i view friendship kinda the same as relationships i love extremely hard platonic and romantic
2026-09-30 02:30:03
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John :
Those comments absolutely lean towards "I'm just here because I'm lusting after you still" instead of just being there for someone. Maybe I'm just autistic, but if my head codes someone (of the opposite sex) as a friend, that's their official designation. I'm not wait for my chance to slip in, that person doesn't have that appeal cause they're hard coded as "just a friend".
2026-09-27 01:19:26
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Josh N429 :
Forgive me for being romantic...
Being in the moment and receiving a freshen cup of cold water on a hot day, to be caught in the rain or to even see a full moon amongst the fireflies... No... They cannot be true friends if they're coveting, lusting and desiring more than being in the moment. But it does not mean they are ignorant to the beauty YOU brought to their life.
2026-09-27 11:32:51
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Kurt :
Yes, you can still be friends with someone that you’ve already rejected and that has romantic feelings for you. I have romantic feelings for one of my best friends she rejected me and now she in a great monogamous relationship with a great guy and I would eat a bullet for them because they’re both great loving people
2026-10-09 17:55:44
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Boredom :
No it’s not a friendship. I’m currently friends with someone I’m crushing on, and while they aren’t interested in me I’m trying my hardest to respect that. Because they are a person and have their own autonomy. And I respect that, do I want to be with them yes. But I only want to be with them if they want to be with me.
2026-10-01 08:04:30
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