@justaskjefferson: Here’s how to make people like you.

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Saturday 26 September 2026 19:02:42 GMT
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xoxks7
Xoxlovz :
Idk I hate it when a stranger constantly uses my name it feels invasive as if we have known one another for a long time.
2026-09-26 20:39:49
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atx.honey
ATX honey :
Idk if it’s an autism thing but when people say my name a lot at me I distrust them
2026-09-26 22:48:34
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kimbest20
user6401160799304 :
I don’t like when people ask me questions about myself.
2026-09-26 20:12:25
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ggg86750
5G :
There is risk of being asked
2026-09-27 07:54:05
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tcoles7
tcoles :
Works every time
2026-09-27 07:09:50
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ccryczek
Ccryczek :
Sometimes when people use my name it can feel manipulative.
2026-09-27 06:36:46
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santuzzia
Santa :
For me it's the opposite if they use my name to many times. 😳
2026-09-26 19:33:00
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kellimiller08
Kelli Miller :
Nope. I don’t like anyone saying my name four or five times in a conversation. Nope nope nope. But yes to asking questions
2026-09-26 19:39:21
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thesimplepineneedle
The Simple Pineneedle :
Begin by liking yourself
2026-09-27 02:21:12
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ElectricGreen :
People just want to be heard & valued.
2026-09-27 02:55:05
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krupp77
krupp :
Name is fine but just do once!
2026-09-26 23:09:03
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groquecrushridge
Noah Whey :
Everyone’s favorite word is their own name
2026-09-26 21:48:31
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bwreeves63
breeves63 :
However, if someone says my name too much in a conversation, that's a creepy red flag, imho.
2026-09-26 20:37:21
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evieevp
evieevp :
this is so interesting. I actually don't like hearing my name said.
2026-09-26 22:26:42
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sportpsychstudio
Dr. Melanie - Psychologist :
As a psychologist, I love how curiosity gives us somewhere to put our attention when we’re worried about saying the “right” thing. A simple “What was that like for you?” gives someone room to feel heard, especially when we listen to their answer. And you’re allowed to share yourself, too. You don’t have to carry the whole conversation to deserve connection. 🤍 I share more about self-trust and easing the pressure to be liked on my page.
2026-09-26 22:11:04
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diamondforever_3
Diamondforever_3Helena :
Somebody used my name just last week when she was giving me advice, it felt like she was overusing it because she was angry . It did not feel good
2026-09-26 19:10:15
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n100la
Nicole :
Use a name too much is cringy ! 😂
2026-09-26 21:39:16
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7kellybeans
7kellybeans :
but doesn't happen
2026-09-26 21:05:36
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nicolemcneill84
NicoleMcNeill :
I really appreciate you shakera 🥰😊
2026-09-26 19:42:07
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dogelmooo
DogElmooo :
I agree, accept the name. people who keep saying my names drives me crazy and all the sympathy turns into "whats wrong with you?"
2026-09-26 19:11:27
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user0000190500000
User0000 :
not trying to make anyone like me —either they do or don’t
2026-09-26 21:38:05
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simplykhmer8
simplykhmer :
I work in banking as a manager, and YES. this is key 🔑 Asking the right questions and actually listening makes such a difference in building trust with people.
2026-09-26 22:19:35
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foodierealtor
Persian👸 :
so true for me ! I do really like when my name is used in conversation
2026-09-27 02:20:01
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v_wonders
V Wonders 🩵🧚🏻‍♂️✈️🧳 :
1,00000%
2026-09-27 00:14:56
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titchishere
Grindsomebeans :
If someone I didn’t know, kept using my name, I would think that was incredibly creepy
2026-09-26 23:58:17
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