@alicefoxintuition: That is one of fifteen questions I wrote down over the years, trying to understand my own dynamic rather than theirs. Everyone asked about them. Nobody asked what I had already decided about myself. Write by hand, fast, before the explaining starts — the first answer is the true one and usually the one you do not want to see written down. Comment QUESTIONS and I will send you the whole process. Free.#narcissisticabusesurvivior #traumabond #toxicrelationship