@gloriaelendu_: Sometimes what we call a personal value is actually a wound asking to be validated. We can spend years trying to prove, “I will never become my parents,” only to let the very wounds we escaped quietly shape our relationships, choices and identity. Healing is not simply becoming the opposite of what hurt you. It is becoming free enough to choose what is good without needing your choices to prove anything about your past. “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) Ask yourself: Is this truly a value I have freely chosen, or is it a wound still trying to protect me? #HealingJourney #SelfAwareness #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalHealing #WalkingWithGod

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presh.clothing
Presh clothing :
Day 1 of begging aunty Gloria to adopt me . I need isdom ma[Teary eyed][Teary eyed][Teary eyed]
2026-09-27 17:54:05
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gloryfavour967
Trauma healing facilitator. :
Women with so much unpaid labour💔
2026-09-27 03:03:48
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ellanandy
Nandy :
If we are equally contributing then why would I give birth for free … why will I and my kids bear your name …. Kids suck my own boobs …Surrogacy will be paid for …….the kids will bear our name … it will be a complete 50/50
2026-09-27 10:36:39
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mynameistega
Big-Tee :
Gloria!!!!! Where did you get all these wisdom!!!! Are you a human !
2026-09-27 01:24:47
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thegoodnwaonu
justcallmegood! :
Ma, can you teach us on emotional intelligence and if you have books or videos you also recommend, please I don’t mind
2026-09-27 17:21:14
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nze_na_billions
nze_na_billions🇨🇳🇳🇬 :
Came to the realisation that we are just like our parents, until you consciously decide
2026-09-27 11:40:28
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onyedikachi65
MR FRANK :
There were both living in their childhood trauma 💔
2026-09-27 04:19:24
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story.teller.mr.n
Story teller ai movies :
Your page is an academy
2026-09-27 08:14:15
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blazeunfiltered
blazeunfiltered :
I no fit marry this woman 😂, she too wise for me😂, she go first explain give me why I dey use the words I use😂, how I wan take impress woman wey already sabi me pass myself ?😂
2026-09-27 10:03:53
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ovalscents
PerfumeStore In Abeokuta|O'val :
This is sooo eye-opening. It also applies to friendships. Thank you so much
2026-09-27 08:00:53
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zeeysreminders
The Sabr Diaries :
Oh God, Trauma oooo. I've made so many decisions based on or I'll say fueled by trauma😏
2026-09-27 07:06:08
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ijwhite8
ijwhite :
Intriguing! If we look closely, our parents were yard stick of comparison in our relationship with our partner, either in a positive way or negative way.🤔
2026-09-27 14:02:36
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chizz704
Zo_barr ᥫ᭡.💕 :
She has fear of overextending, he overgives from fear of inadequacy and they don’t show gratitude and appreciate each other .. wounds wounds of childhood
2026-09-27 08:07:06
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munastreats
Muna’sTreats :
Thank you Gloria… I see my fault here. I had to pause and have a conversation with my husband cause we had an episode like this 2days back. And I see where I judged him from my own biases. Thank you 🙏. I hope to be more intentional and careful going forward.
2026-09-27 13:16:09
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mimigirl018
Lovie :
This Is my situation. Anytime I work I feel so tired and I felt like my husband wasnt helping but he was oh just because he does every single thing effortlessly.
2026-09-27 17:26:00
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bby_jacklyn
Bby_Jacklyn :
Appreciation matters a lot ❤️
2026-09-26 23:06:49
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mercyj_ames
Big_mj :
Gloria yu are right 💯 I have sworn not to be and marry like my mother honestly
2026-09-27 11:36:54
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giftherself3
GiftEra ✨ :
They don’t appreciate each other other
2026-09-27 06:32:42
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velson_foods
velson pops and creams :
talk to me ooo to think I'm the first child from the first family and got married at 17 to a narcissistic family...
2026-09-26 23:14:38
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zinnydan1
zinnydan :
Bring me pack please 🙏
2026-09-27 08:05:47
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ms_traciiee
missT’s Diary☆ :
I relate to this so much, I just understood I have a fear of over extending but it’s not from my parents it’s from my past experiences of being a people pleaser in relationships and friendships, it has affected me so much that I unknowingly hurt others, I’ve lost good bonds because of it, trauma makes you unrecognizable to yourself if you let it.. because there’s resentment and fear of the past repeating itself so it’s always a struggle, the good thing is you can check yourself and try to control how you let those trauma play out, because unfortunately regardless of what you’ve experienced, no one deserves to suffer because of your trauma.
2026-09-27 08:40:32
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ebustars230
Ebustars :
Whenever intentionality is mistook and reduced to the bare minimum problem is bond to happen, cause the part involved starts feeling inappropriated
2026-09-27 06:33:14
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squinteastwood2
Pslmsñ :
"The bare minimum"..... that's the phrase 😅😅😅
2026-09-27 06:05:07
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omoayoade1
KIMIA :
Oh Gloriaaaaaaaaaaaa you’re such a vessel of wisdom knowledge and understanding. I thank God for the day I decided to follow your page
2026-09-27 11:17:32
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kembongflorida
Kembong Florida :
I just love the way you talk😁,it's so nice and make picturing the situation easy
2026-09-26 23:19:42
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