@getdivorceready: Monthly alimony sounds safe until he loses his job, stops paying, moves states, or decides to go back to court to lower it. Then you're paying an attorney to chase money that was supposed to be yours. A lump sum ends all of that. It's paid once and it's yours. No waiting on a check, no enforcement battles, and no staying financially tied to your ex for years. The catch is that the number has to be fair. A lump sum should reflect what the monthly payments are actually worth, and where it comes from matters. $200K from a 401(k) is not the same as $200K in cash, because taxes can take a big bite. Before you sign, have a CDFA run the numbers. +371 women have trusted Get Divorce Ready to do exactly that. #divorce #alimony #divorcetips #divorcedwomen #CDFA

Marissa Reale - CDFA, CRPC
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samplefirst
SampleFirst :
33 years of marriage and I am only getting his half of the house he forced me out of. He has retired as of last month and I have gotten zero $$
2026-09-28 10:48:14
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nanatee921
NanaTee :
Or they take you back to court multiple times to reduce it 😒
2026-10-03 23:04:30
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sarajohnstonander
Sara Johnston Anders-won :
What state are you in! I’m in North Carolina!
2026-09-27 04:02:37
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brandsn3
user7752820908749 :
Yes 🙌 I took the lump sum and Invested it! The S&P return is on average 10%. He had already been fired from two executive level positions - I was not risking it.
2026-10-12 00:27:05
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drinkupbuttercup1980
Drinkupbuttercup1980 :
Alimony should be no longer allowed it’s fing ridiculous
2026-09-28 02:20:05
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middle4me
Middle 4 Me :
100% do this! I ended up taking one of our properties to eliminate spousal support. He wasn’t paying on time and I had to take him back to court several times and honestly family court. Never did anything they didn’t care. Yes, my Spousal Support was high but once I did the math on the property and the fact he wasn’t paying and family court did nothing I was better off with the property. See what you have and negotiate.
2026-09-27 07:26:18
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briandmj
Bri :
But that lump sum should be less than the total of monthly payments…. Based on cost of funds
2026-09-27 22:35:42
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12345this.is.me
Capt-MF-B :
alimony should be eliminated
2026-09-28 19:35:15
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butterflyq717
butterflyq717🦋 :
I need help ASAP
2026-09-27 09:34:06
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disneybound2007
Louise :
Have it go through child support court
2026-10-18 10:30:50
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gkeep42
gkeep42 :
If we were still married her income would be affected by me losing my job so why not after? She can work and live within her own means.
2026-10-14 17:54:22
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sweetpetitevida
L :
For how long ?
2026-09-30 23:46:20
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janzenconsultingt7
janzenconsultingtcb :
many father's need this
2026-10-08 17:34:07
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jan_2323_
Jan :
Do they have to do that if you ask?
2026-09-27 02:22:38
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laurenkelley02
LaurenKelley02 :
The lawyer said my car was my support. But yet I have the kids 100% of the time. 😡 The judge refused alimony.
2026-09-28 13:09:17
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narcabusehealthcoach
NarcissistAbuserecoveryCoach :
he wouldnt do a pay out for it! now im fighting for it.
2026-10-04 17:44:49
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kellydcampbell
KellyDCampbell :
100 percent this!!! especially long term marriages way to many strings attached to alimony and you spend double the alimony amount in court for review/modification etc
2026-09-28 18:01:52
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thaguy223
thaguy223 :
How many people actually have a lump sum, she believes I owe her $275,000, she was never a SAH anything
2026-10-06 11:07:55
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prteacher6
PR 💗👩🏻‍🏫🇵🇷 :
I’m just n Florida and I got divorced 4 years ago and I was broke back there with no attorney and I agreed with everything on the decree but I was told that I was supposed to receive some of his military retirement benefits or money? I’d appreciate it any advice please. Thanks!
2026-10-21 02:34:45
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xanseye
Xanseye :
How do they pay the lump sum?
2026-10-19 23:29:31
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danielkiptanui280
chexx280 :
men why marry then loose more than half of your own property at divorce and pay alimony for life??? for what n whose benefits
2026-09-27 16:49:02
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ryanwarner30
Wolverine :
my father did this when divorcing his 2nd wife. she signed it & ran. 1yr later she was broke.😁 she tried everything to sue him & his lawyer for "tricking her into it"😏
2026-10-12 18:26:02
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mollylund4
mollylund4 :
😁😁😁
2026-09-27 02:01:48
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melanie82k
𝕄K :
💯💯💯💯
2026-09-29 17:21:19
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