@neidateresa98: A ding so bad it actually had the opposite effect and made me think that there’s real trouble in paradise and Taylor Swift is not as happy in this marriage as she claims (the lady doth protest too much methinks). Also it’s a glaring omission to me that she doesn’t mention any of the “you’re not his type” claims hurled at her and Travis when those are the loudest and most obvious ones that come to mind. I do think the guy likes her, I also think she thinks she’s trying to convince me when she’s really trying to convince herself. Also now I’m thinking of it, had she ever really written a true “love” song? Hmm #taylorswift #thelifeofashowgirl #music #commentary #tiktokgrowthchallenge
Her telling a bunch of women the bar for a good relationship is “just find a man who doesn’t find you completely insufferable,” is really weird to me.
2026-09-27 03:24:59
11648
Rea :
In my opinion, Joe Alwyn was the love of her life and that's why she married Travis. Travis is completely the opposite of Joe. She wanted that marriage with him and it never came so she found someone who was willing to do it almost immediately.
2026-09-27 12:52:15
1026
moonprisimpower23 :
I got picked! Should have been the album title
2026-09-27 04:32:36
4220
lila111q :
She has written so many beautiful love songs (about her ex) e.g. Daylight, Lover, king of my heart, call it what you want, new years day, ready for it, invisible string, Paris, dress, so it goes etc. Or even silly ones like gorgeous, London boy, Paper rings, I think he knows. She even has written love songs about people she wasn't even with like Enchanted or you are in love. It's totally possible - but apparently not about her husband cause she's focused on the public perception with him. She hasn't said a single thing she likes about this man
2026-09-27 10:02:47
920
Heather | thrifting&motherhood :
Ive been super into Carly Rae Jepson’s new album. And the juxtaposition between the 2 is so crazy because this is CRJ’s first release post marriage and becoming a mother and it is some of her best music she’s ever released. It’s fresh, it’s dynamic, it’s experimental, her happiness is expressed in such an amazing tone and through really beautiful lyrics. Taylor’s vibe is like “I’m married and that’s all that matters no matter what you say about me”. Which is not a sign of mature love or “finding the one”. It’s really sad.
2026-09-27 02:30:18
2257
bijuux.twix :
You’re the first person I’ve heard bring up the underlying black woman preference element. I’ve been surprised to see no one talk about that.
2026-09-27 02:55:46
1956
Trufflemonster :
what happened to "my love should be celebrated but you tolerate it". Now tolerating it the acceptable standard lol.
2026-09-27 05:07:57
5462
Planet Cajo :
Mournfully singing " ... but I'm not a bad bitch, and this isn't savage" during a song for her true love was a choice. A choice.
2026-09-27 04:04:41
2884
ansajehan :
THANK YOU! she is fixated on not being his ‘type’
2026-09-27 04:05:58
669
summersailor.xo :
I had more faith in the authenticity of their relationship before she came out with life of a showgirl. Now, I fear she’s doing a lot of projecting and defending for someone who just got their “happy ending”
2026-09-27 16:31:50
115
Crystal :
You would expect, if she was in LOVE that we would be getting...you know...love songs.
2026-09-27 03:13:00
544
Kit~ :
thiss!! I wondered why she sounded so bitter just AFTER getting married
2026-09-27 05:10:22
724
Abbey Christine :
I also think it’s really dangerous rhetoric to imply “most men will find you insufferable, commit yourself to whoever doesn’t find you completely insufferable”. 😅
2026-09-27 14:36:27
574
Cicizzle :
Someone said “well she’s actually in love now and realizes it isn’t that deep.” Like????? Let’s go back into early Joe Alwyn days because she was in fact really in love with Joe and wrote BEAUTIFUL love songs for him
2026-09-27 14:36:46
307
howaikram :
It really made me sad for her like wow
2026-09-27 02:28:18
1415
Rembulan Nauli :
she resents people not eating it up…
2026-09-27 03:58:18
1005
Ariadne Tofana :
“I got picked I got picked!” Because that’s all she’s ever wanted. It’s not even about being loved, it’s about other people seeing her get picked. I know bc I stayed in a relationship for ten years bc it meant that I had been “picked,” even though I wasn’t loved. Then I went to therapy. As Taylor should be doing
2026-09-27 22:22:47
0
Jacob - Papa Seahorse 🏳️⚧️🍉 :
it sounds like a Facebook post where someone over enthuses about their partner, in that way that makes it clear they're unhappy
2026-09-27 09:08:37
413
lila111q :
"I lost his games but won the race" is exactly how I think she sees all this. It's as if her kinda rebounding with Travis and getting married is just a f u to Joe to show him someone chose her and she isn't/wasn't the problem.
2026-09-27 10:08:20
1025
TacoandLily ⭐️Kim⭐️ :
The bar is in hell. We should be teaching young girls and women that your partner should love ALL of you. They should find you 0% insufferable.
2026-09-27 11:38:34
248
Jessica 🏴🇬🇧 :
The fact that she used to write so eloquently about the love she hoped to find and now she writes that her husband likes her and they’re married so f the haters.
2026-09-27 07:51:30
285
TropicalSunday :
True but I think it lowkey bothers her that she was finally “chosen” by a guy that’s not her type either. Taylor’s usual type is frail, artistic British boys who are perceived as complicated. Travis is a big, all-American jock who is perceived as quite simple. That doesn’t seem to boost her ego specifically (like finally winning over a MH/JA type would) but only satisfies her ego in the realm of perception because she knows he’s overall respected.
2026-09-27 14:42:25
193
Aplacelikehome :
I saw someone say “they can both find someone better” and I have to say… it might be true 😅
2026-09-27 04:52:04
246
elara :
I wonder if she’s like the Brad Pitt of songwriting. Like she kind of stylistically reflects the man she’s with in her music style. I think Trav might just be a fairly simple dude and hence the simple art.
2026-09-27 03:07:49
672
hibiscus :
As a teen just starting to date my parents would stress "don't worry so much about whether he likes you, worry about whether you like him"
2026-09-27 14:24:38
146
To see more videos from user @neidateresa98, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.