@teresondupuy: When someone says, “I love you” and “thank you” while they are walking out the door and into someone new, pay attention to the contradiction. Especially if they have not been honest with you about the other person. That kind of language can sound tender. But tenderness without truth is not integrity. Sometimes it functions to keep the door cracked open. To preserve access to you. To protect their image. To soften their own guilt. To leave themselves a pathway back if the new situation does not work out. And that can become emotional manipulation. Not because every goodbye is calculated. But because words like “I love you” can be used to maintain emotional attachment while their behavior is telling a completely different story. So stop listening only to what they said. Look at what they did. Were they honest? Were they transparent? Did they give you the truth you needed to make informed choices? Did their actions match the love they claimed? If not, stop giving the words more weight than the behavior. Love without honesty is not enough. See it clearly. That clarity is what helps you finally stop being emotionally managed by someone else’s mixed messages. #Heartbreak #EmotionalManipulation #AttachmentStyle #InnerWork #SelfLove

KSASS :

It’s a gut punch

"thunder joe :

nobody loves me

Kurt :

it's mirror action.. coz they experienced it on others.. woman n men.. see it for what it is..

James | French Eagle Builds :

preach 🙏

LaTrucker (2Wolves1Crow) :

Exactly

itsmarios :

Couldn’t describe it better. I’m a firm believer of karma❤️🦋

Emilio :

I've been with my ex for about 13 years. that was about 40 years ago. if I meet her today, this is what I would say sincerely from my heart, thank you for everything you had done for me. and that will be the truth. even though I'm the one who walked away. I call this, recognize the fact that she was good to me, and showing appreciation for what happened.

Tina Marie :

That’s exactly what he did to me…and the next night ghosted me without a word

✨Laura✨ :

No closed it for my safety

Don :

been there got told that

Rutt :

Garraway Jannet :

that is not love

🇸🇪 Jenny vitan 🇺🇲🤟 :

Coming for my chilld back for this mom today and ex husbend can fack off from my face

Brittany Morrow :

I’m so over men trying to look like a good guy after doing awful things. It’s always “but I’m a good guy”. No.

Wild Leo ♌️ :

What I was in love with the chick I thought I recently had to walk away from you. Don’t know how the fuck you’re talking about. I’ll challenge you.

Dwayne Fournier :

Sweater, if they say they love you, but they're not in love with you. What the f***'s I suppose to mean? Tell me

jaime Karaoke 88 :

mine left me over and over...bastard

meganallen2555 :

💯

chicoooo86 :

💶💶💶