@get.podgems: Sometimes a marriage doesn’t fall apart through constant fighting. It just becomes quieter, flatter, and more distant until two people are living together without really being connected. James Sexton explains what that “smoke” can look like before anyone even starts thinking about divorce. #JamesSexton #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #Divorce #PodcastClips
ok so why is this villainzed?? everyone wants to portray a perfect marriage as if life, children, grandchildren, bills, 40+years real life problems don't exist! of all the people i know married that long I'm sorry but passion, just and sex are no longer on the forefront! it's turned into something else. after half your life im not gonna go search for someone else to start over im gonna live what time I have left with my partner WHATEVER it may look like to to those that don't matter. THESE ARE REAL OLD SCHOOL VALUES!! This is that new age crap!
2026-10-02 04:19:10
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chan_cam_ :
The thing is we talk a lot about interesting topics. But there’s just no chemistry or romance anymore.
2026-10-01 11:51:02
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Brad Hitcherick :
that's how mine ended, I got tired of the roommate thing
2026-09-27 13:01:45
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Brittany :
I don’t think I could have a conversation with anyone without those things included. As a full time working mom that’s basically all I’ve got- I’m either doing my job or taking care of kids. I think maybe people forget that when your kids are little- your hobby’s etc are on the back burner.
2026-09-30 15:51:30
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GEN ❌ 67 Kendra :
😳 35 years just flatlined…….
2026-10-02 01:20:55
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Kim P :
Dead But On A Ventilator
2026-10-02 03:06:11
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Monkeywhip :
As Mel said “let them” and they will….. I’m ✔️out…..
2026-09-28 09:56:25
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Xtina🦋 :
Roommates and somewhat friends on good days but no romance… we really had no business getting married… legit both just here for the kids
2026-09-29 03:32:57
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carla smada :
Contempt. Apathy. Stagnancy. Those are dangerous in relationships.
2026-10-01 03:13:48
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Who dis? :
I said I have a funeral to attend this Friday. He didn't even ask who for...
2026-09-30 03:35:34
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PopOffStudios :
so true. its indifference
2026-09-28 15:15:41
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🐘🐄Delicious GA Peach 🍑 :
the numbness the we just live together the we got so use to this life we're just here now
2026-09-28 18:29:38
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Pey.Grey :
So true!! They look so good on the outside but nope
2026-09-28 03:15:54
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Cosmo_Ivy 🌺 :
This is what happened with us. We use to get mad and be sad when we fight then one day I just left because nothing made me want to make it work any more 😭. I still miss him but think he was there too. It was definitely roommate stage .
2026-09-29 12:28:17
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PhoenyxEra :
it's indifference.
2026-09-27 16:42:53
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sarafranklund :
Just absolutely stagnant!
2026-09-28 19:13:43
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AlphaQueen15 :
Death by a thousand silent papercuts.
2026-10-01 09:27:32
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Cracking myself up :
Roommates sucks until you just say it’s cool. Not my priority. Teammates.
2026-09-29 10:45:27
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runner19853 :
I do not believe anything other than this actually exists
2026-09-29 01:09:37
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Travel beyond :
Yessss
2026-09-30 13:03:50
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user1066720035406 :
roomate with a dog in common here. lots of crickets
2026-10-01 19:15:19
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Heather Morris :
I have had 4 main relationships but nit 1 of my relationships were this way except at the end if my 1.5 year marriage that I no longer argued but I akso found out about his cheating but the end was before that but nit long but at 21 I was ready but I akso needed to learn things but him at 25 he didn't really know how to be a husband and never wanted ti be a dad. we needed ti have more conversations. We married too young him thinking living together that I must have a ring and be narried but if I knew he wasn't ready we wouldn't have married
2026-10-01 10:12:48
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fitfineshyt :
oh god. i finally feel seen
2026-10-01 12:51:34
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lisasmith77340 :
Just described my 37 year marriage...
2026-10-01 22:32:36
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Gswaggy :
Yep! My marriage
2026-10-01 19:04:12
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