@thesolivaganttake: I’ll say it before and I’ll say it again: lesbians don’t date trans women because they’re female people attracted to other female people, not male people or male people who wish to be female. Nobody is saying you can’t date women, but call it like it is: straight. You can’t say you fought for these rights and then erase exactly what you fought for..You fought for same sex attraction/love/marriage, you did NOT fight for lesbians to become bisexuals just to affirm yourself. Trans women should have the right to exist? Yes. Trans women deserve rights that properly protect them? Yes. Are trans women women and should their rights, wants, or self ideology override/erase true sexuality? No and no. #fyp #xyzbca #lesbian #transgender #debate

꒰ 🩺🐀 ⋮ Cyber ˚. !! ꒱ :

“Erasure lesbianism” for including women in lesbianism 😭😭😭

Maeve Edurada :

Stop no one is forcing anything. If you don’t vibe with someone move on🤷‍♀️

Nik :

Like bi/pan exist for a reason….

✨Elijah✨ :

I believe you can love who you love and if you have a preference for afab lesbians that’s all good but you don’t have to have to bring transphobia into it

Aslan's Jewelry Atelier |📍NYC :

I don't understand why wanting the specific type of woman that's inherently not attracted to them be forced into liking them... there's bi women that'll date a transwoman, why go for the ones that simply wouldn't??

Frosty Yang :

I’m not a lesbian(I’m ace, but like men romantically). I find the whole thing really wild. Like orientation is linked to genitalia. And of course orientation is complicated since it’s a mix of romantic chemistry and genital desirability, but thinking someone is a form of phobic because they aren’t into your genitals is backwards. Sex and dating SHOULD be selective, and if you already don’t like someone based on what’s in their pants, why even entertain it? And why would they want to be strung along as well? I know part of this is purely access on their part…

nōmiso :

they seriously think a male and a female in a relationship is homosexual 😭😭😭

help :

noones forcing cis people to like trans people. preferences in a relationship arent being eradicated

depth_queen :

Any talk about gender especially about trans men and trans woman make me realize that people will blindly follow others like sheep or they won’t understand why things the way they are. Like you’ll see people being against trans women in here saying that they’re still men and they go off the definition of woman being adult human female but I doubt they ever questioned why it ought to be defined that way when there’s different fields of science that disagree with that single definition

Bluntsn’Bitch3s🇺🇸 :

A Bays :

I say date whoever you want. It’s your choice and preferences enough said. I wasn’t every man’s cup of tea but I found a man that I was his glass of whiskey. It’s honestly not that deep

alexis!!⚢<3 :

lesbianism has always included trans women lol and gnc lesbians. it’s quite literally one of the stripes in our flag. you don’t HAVE to date one but they’re included.

Ethan Richardson :

sex and gender are two different things trans women are women you are allowed to prefer cis women but trans women are still women

Daury Davis :

a lesbian dating a trans woman is still a lesbian

lesbian princess :

Trans women are women. It’s okay to have a genital preference there’s nothing wrong with that. But there’s no need for people to be transphobic. Lots of lesbians love and have relationships with trans women

✊🏿🏳️‍⚧️Nyxie🏳️‍⚧️✊🏿 :

This is a really pointless discussion, since the discourse has nothing to do with real life. Nobody can force anyone do date anyone else, at best youre complaining about people’s opinions online, which Dont amount to much

morriuxnft3 :

Right bc you are the only person who gets to define what being a lesbian means

someone :

Well good thing they're not actually being forced to! Going outside would solve like 99% of tiktok arguments 😂

L 🤦🏽‍♀️🇺🇸 :

the concept of excluding sex from sexual orientation, when we have sex we do it with our sex organs not our gender identities

whomst :

NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO DATE ANYONE 😭 you can recognize trans women as women & lesbians but you’re not attracted to every random lesbian you meet are you? if you come out the gate not seeing trans women as humans to connect with then yeah girl you’re not going to like any of them and whyy would they even like you? girl bye

Max Caulfield :

It falls on transphobia based on how you act about it. There’s nothing wrong with not Being a POS. Just say “not interested” then move on. You don’t need to bring someone’s identity into question

Darion :

they aren't? trans women are only asking to be seen as women, and it's okay to have a preference regarding genitals or anything. Lesbians can date anyone, who they choose Is their choice