@hopewithholly: Women have always worked. The question is: who gets the credit, authority, prestige, and title? Women grow and birth the children, but the family traditionally carries the father’s name. Women do more of the housework and child-rearing, but men have historically been called the “head of the household.” Women teach the children, care for the sick, feed the family, keep churches running, organize the holidays, and do the invisible work that holds everything together. But when that same work becomes professionalized, prestigious, monetized, or powerful? Suddenly it becomes chef, doctor, professor, pastor, executive, leader. This isn’t about saying men do nothing. That would be ridiculous. It’s about noticing a pattern: Women do the labor. Men disproportionately receive the status. And once you see it, you start seeing it everywhere. #Feminism #Patriarchy #womenempoweringwomen #Women

user9055992689409 :

Taking a man’s last name is weird to me. I didn’t change mine and don’t plan to.

sandrasilverio370 :

Love you Holly...Hot damn this is the craziest shit

Maebl Pax 🇨🇦 :

My kids got my name, like I did with my mom.... Why would they get the fathers last name?

Monique Foster :

We are not accepting this anymore

pnwgma :

In the legal world the paralegal, historically a woman, does all the work and the lawyer, historically a man, just go to court and chat with a judge, also historically a man, to make the final decisions…. All based on the paralegals work.

Kris | LV Chemical Peels & Wax :

we are the real providers 😭

Roberta Dettinger :

Holly I love you. You are saying things I have wanted to say all my life and I’m 67 thank you.

camcoast1 :

You know damn well Mrs Clause did all the work

_Elizabixtch_ :

Child free is the only way ✨

Sheirjbenwiahwbw :

I did all

noellecatz | cle hairstylist :

Nothing but facts but I love your gallery wall!!

Angela G :

i freaking just love you friend..i really like your content

token124 :

My daughter gets one present from Santa- the rest are alllll me 🥰

✨Rudari Rose🌹🛡️🌎🪽🙌 :

All of these have pissed me off for years!!

itsjustmein2026 :

I wore my ass out when I was married the first time. I’m single now and enjoying life.

Maggie 🐈‍⬛ :

So true! The Bible is full of “Abraham begot Isaac, Isaac begot Jacob” which in my native Bulgarian KJV is translated into “birthed”. Even the birthing in the Bulgarian bible has been accredited to men 🤬

Nalignmentwlife Healing & Life :

Yes, ,I see the pattern.

Matriarchy of Truth :

Tracie🆘🇺🇲🆘🌏 :

I'm 63 and im soooooo pissed off that everything about my life was about the patriarchy, "daddy issues", and not using my voice. I mean my whole young life. Now I look at my husband like .....

j.j1960🇨🇦 :

Yup!!

jeannettemartinez09 :

if I could go back in time Id take all that BS that was spoon fed to me cuz I was a girl! my life since young was thought of future and how to behave, my decisions and my place in life frame work was as a women taking backseat to men! my life would of been soo different if Id been told you are your person who you are and do what you aspire to be! at times as women as we get older if we did live majority of our lives and early on decisions we made based on the BS we all end of years later Once we realuzed and of course time and society moved on That majority if not all of our life was stolen from us! doesnt matter how proud we are of our kids as a result or our love for them! deep down for some and for others not even deep we know weve been duped! we can only change future now so live it as a person you were born as Not a helper sidekick to some other person Cuz when Your born Your born Alone and When you die you die Alone! no do overs

PineapplePizza78 :

I got my moms last name but both my brothers got their father's last names.

Elegant Shaman :

men held nursing first that changed in the civil war it got devalued immediately

Trishielicious🩺 :

I learned in nursing school that nursing was relegated to women, because they wanted someone soft and submissive that would obey the doctors.

imandreaceleste :

Ok but I love your hair ma’am 😍