@imjustkesha7: Sometimes the hardest part of forgiveness is accepting that you may never understand why they hurt you. #Resentment #Forgiveness #RelationshipHealing #HeartbreakTalk #RelationshipAdvice
It’s hard to let go when a part of you is still asking, “Why would you do that to me?”
2026-09-27 18:54:43
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chris. :
Especially when the behavior persists or happened multiple times
2026-09-28 02:36:19
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Jordan Amaya 🤎 :
especially when you can’t even wrap your mind around ever doing that to someone else!
2026-09-28 02:18:20
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Dany :
Me and my OCD really hold onto the whys
2026-09-27 16:07:27
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chio9225 :
Because I would’ve never done that to him. 🥺
2026-09-30 01:36:26
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Meghan_Miller :
when you ghost the ghost
2026-09-29 19:19:44
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mari.marrr.020 :
It might be my empathetic nature conflicted with my own feelings of wanting justice. In the end I’m just heartbroken reliving the pain I’m constantly dealing with.
2026-09-27 16:53:17
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preecakes :
they did it because they aren’t perfect. they mess up. they might not be a good person. they might not know better. unfortunately you just have to learn it’s not personal, it’s a reflection of who they are. that’s pretty much it. it’s showing you who they are
2026-09-28 01:40:24
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Swayla💜baby :
the results of their actions meant more to them than their love for you. That's enough for me. you never know what situation will surface that brings the truth out of ppl. and "it ain't nothing, cut that btch off!" I never wanna hold on to that pain or anger cause that only hurts me. but trust we will never forget
2026-09-30 13:17:40
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Star_Regina :
I’ll never get the answers so I’ll never forgive 💯
2026-09-28 03:45:31
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bammag1962 :
sometimes you have to forgive them every day until your mind catches up.
2026-09-29 14:24:58
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Mama1968 :
And how am I expected to just be "normal" with someone who knowingly hurt me
2026-09-27 16:54:17
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Serpentine Ribbon 🖤 :
👏👏👏 That's what I'm working on now. And there's no accountability from my friend. Instead, she just tries to talk to me like she never did me wrong
2026-09-27 14:43:35
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MMMM :
My resentment comes from ,”how did I allow you to do this to me”
2026-09-27 21:46:14
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Zen Maps :
And it’s all resulted in me having to work on forgiving myself instead for allowing myself to go through all that
2026-09-30 01:49:33
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Karen Kelly :
exactly. After betrayal you will never be the same
2026-09-30 02:48:02
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Gillian Sally Owens :
Especially when they steal time and precious moments of your own child's time from you without remorse.
2026-09-29 02:13:04
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lindseydi :
Forgiveness is EARNED
2026-09-30 02:56:35
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cat sparrow :
It’s nearly impossible to understand the why when you know you would never do such a thing
2026-09-27 16:54:57
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vansmakemedance10 :
That’s how I be feeling
2026-09-28 13:27:25
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Danielle 🖤🇺🇸 :
I have a really hard time with forgiveness....a really hard time
2026-09-27 16:23:07
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kaia.michelle0 :
the best answer I could come up with is that they weren't who I thought they were, who I wanted to believe they were. and I had to grieve the loss of that person that I had loved, because that wasn't the person in front of me.
2026-09-27 17:15:49
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👑Addison Glow :
Unless they’re your child, you need to let them go. They are not for you.
2026-09-28 02:50:57
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Vanexa :
And... that's why you be an adult and have the tough conversations!! Being afraid that if you say something they will leave, then you are already self abandoning.
2026-09-27 17:39:20
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