@adelemarchant: Part of the reason why you were overthinking men are caught up in your anxious attachment is because you are avoiding your real true purpose in life because it’s a lot less exciting usually than dating #datingadviceforwomen #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #situationshipproblems #situationship

Madison👸🏼 :

I only want a man when I'm in a waiting season with my career 🙄

mandishh :

Choosing peace also feels like being dead 😭

Souldakota2.0 :

They are a distraction - poor investment too

heyitsjdez :

I think my frontal lobe just developed with this.. I’ve been addicted to the story of “almosts” and “what ifs”… it’s draining. Thank you for this pov! I need to focus on my purpose, especially when I’ve been distracting myself from it for so long. 🙏 🔥 🎯

whiskey_wishes :

Understanding this so hard at the moment. Always was putting the men in my life on number one. Don’t want to do that anymore. But how the heck do infuus my purpose in life after spending years and years supporting other people.

Marcella :

This is so spot on! I was actually thinking about this earlier. This is confirmation!

Kathrynjeleva :

I get this but I do know I want a marriage and family of my own and it feels like if I don’t put myself out there I won’t find it. But it’s also awful out there so just focusing on myself rn 🥺

Elizabeth :

needed to hear this today’s dj you’re also in Charlotte?? pls do an in person event

melissascreations :

Everything. Down to the to do list… did my bff put you up to this🤣🤣🤣🤣

Kayylala ᥫ᭡ :

It’s the chasing the open loop that hit it head on for me 😂

Rach :

I was literally thinking about this topic earlier today. Couldn’t agree more!

Tatum Marie :

Omg yes! I hate the dating culture because all it is, is a distraction. I didn’t even answer my messages this weekend I got and focused on my children

Fitwithrayy| Running & Life :

Mikayla :

Omg giiiirrrlllllll. THANK YOU FOR THIS.

Paris F. :

You’re too loud sis 😭😂

bribri❤️ :

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thank you

Priya ⭐️ :

I needed to hear this ✨✨✨

sam_storm :

Thank you. Seriously I needed this.

phoebolicious :

This kinda just changed my life

✨💋elena :

Praise Jesus hearing this on a Monday morning.

Maddy S-M :

calling me out

rorii :

hey so i have the exact opposite of this problem i genuinely have no interest in talking to or hanging out with any guys and im concerned how long this is going to go on for

Dee :

At 54 and single! I feel like I’m in the process of grieving this old girl. I love my freedom now and love being curious about me. It literally happened over night for me 🙋🏻‍♀️😉💯🙌

Naomi Lane :

The moment I stopped trying to "fix" all my dating problems, I realized I was just perpetuating an open problem that couldn't be solved. That's when I picked up You're Being Misread by Vanessa Greer and it changed everything for me

Erica Duignan :

So true