i’m also 19, on my second gap year. i’ve been working the whole time but don’t feel fulfilled. i’m afraid if i take time off and travel, ill be behind in the future and not set up.
2026-09-28 19:30:58
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æ💷 :
This video got to all of us 19 year olds 😭
2026-09-28 22:38:16
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Kim🍒 :
I feel like a failure but I genuinely don’t know what I want to do.
2026-09-30 03:02:51
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nate :
At 19 I took 4 years off school. I’m back now. 4.0. Grinding. Working 2 jobs. Gym everyday. We got time just keep going
2026-09-29 21:34:26
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gloomygorehound :
i’m not even 19 i’m almost 21 man
2026-09-30 17:14:42
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H :
I’m not the only one??????????
2026-09-28 17:27:04
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natalie :
This made me cry bc I rlly question if it’s gonna be okay - a 19 year old
2026-09-30 01:44:36
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radio_riotx :
Im about to turn 19 and im in the same situation. I really needed this thanks 🙏
2026-10-13 17:58:13
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kael :
I’m 19 and went to secondary right after highschool, I’m hating it. I quit, and started going on so many hikes and just out in nature. I have no money and no plans for the future, but honestly you make it seem like it’s easy and everything will actually be okay
2026-09-27 22:11:08
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Kdawg♿️ :
Absolutely crazy timing, thank you🙏
2026-09-28 16:59:48
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ℒℯ𝑔𝒶𝒸𝓎 ♔🇵🇷 :
Funny i’m 19 in the same situation
2026-09-30 05:55:19
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<3 :
Literally me rn and I’m stressed asf I’m so lost in life
2026-09-30 04:28:27
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Alee🌻🇮🇹🇫🇷👩❤️💋👩 :
Being 19 is traumatic
2026-09-30 15:48:03
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h :
How do you achieve peace like this?
2026-10-12 15:35:35
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Ayesha✨ :
Thank you I genuinely needed that. I rushed into college after high school, I hated it, and dropped out 3 months ago. I feel so lost, but I know everything will be okay.
2026-09-28 04:04:08
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xEvelynexSexsmithx🇨🇦 :
im 37 work in corporate and still don't know what im doing
2026-10-13 01:01:53
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bess :
Wow me too
2026-09-28 15:20:11
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Rae :
Your a teenager don’t stress 😭I’m 20, no license 9-5 living with my parents… single with a full unfinished year of college I been avoiding, you will figure it out when it’s time, idk where I’m at in life
2026-09-30 16:02:54
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saurora1542 :
best timing ever thank you geez 😛🤙🏻
2026-09-28 04:35:37
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Jordan 🫶🏻 :
dude i literally thought i was the only one
2026-09-30 16:18:54
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𝑙𝑎𝑟𝑎👼🏼 :
First gap year, I’m scared
2026-09-30 21:37:34
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luv4kelly :
Thx I’m going into school for something I don’t even wna do
2026-09-29 05:38:37
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Sponge_Cake :
I’m 19, unemployed, and have no idea what I want to do for the rest of my life. I tried college but it just wasn’t for me, it was just too expensive and overwhelming. My parents started fighting in the month of October, eventually getting divorced in the middle of my senior year of high school. I regret the things I didn’t do while I was still in school, I always felt burnt out at the end of the day and I didn’t have any friends. My little sister is now starting high school and I’m starting to think she has it better than me because she’s more energetic and has friends. I feel like everyone hates me for giving up and don’t want me around, to even have fun, I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy anymore.😭
2026-09-29 17:41:37
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Flozza🍒 :
I’m 19, on my second gap year, with no friends left at home who aren’t at uni, and I’m constantly questioning whether I’m doing the right thing with my life. I have a part-time job, but one thing travelling has taught me is that I’m so much happier when I’m away from home than when I’m stuck in the same place. Most of the time I feel completely lost, but I must be doing something right because I’m always choosing what genuinely makes me happy over what other people expect me to be doing. Going to uni for the sake of getting a degree feels like settling and filling time right now. In the last year alone, travelling has taught me more about myself, other people, and the world than the rest of my life combined. I still don’t have a plan, but for the first time, I’m genuinely excited about whatever comes next.
2026-09-30 00:13:34
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Mølly Sekerak :
I'm almost 19 I had planned to go to college after I graduated but deep down I knew I didn't want to bc I just wanted to live my life but I was also afraid because idk what I'm doing with my life and with the judgement of others of not going to college but it's been the best decision of my life to not go to college
2026-09-28 19:12:36
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