@adelemarchant: While he is single focused, you are emotionally progressing via how much you think about him when he is not thinking about you. And it’s to your detriment. #datingadviceforwomen #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #situationshipproblems #situationship
Needed this.... I need to slow my thoughts down! ugh!
2026-09-30 14:00:30
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chasing_serenity :
My boyfriend is so present. Sends me quick videos all day long about what’s going on at work. We stay at each others house 4 days a week. The other 3 days he works really late. He shows up constantly for me. Problem is we’ve been together 9 months and no I love you from him except for the few times I’ve brought it up and said it bothered me. He said he loves me but said it too early with other relationships but he said he’s there and loves me but he just can’t tell me other than when I talk to him about it. In my mind I’m giving him till 12 months and I’ll bring it up again. It’s so hard because he’s amazing and shows he loves me all day every day
2026-09-30 21:59:34
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Ember :
oh... that makes so much more sense.
my brain is constant.
2026-09-30 19:20:04
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Amy Drummond :
I'm going crazy and he's just enjoying his Tuesday 🙄
2026-10-06 08:24:11
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Mb :
I’ve learned what this is called. Men think in boxes we think in bags. They have one box that carries one though at a time. When they need to think about something else they take the thought out of the box and put a new one in. Women think in bags. We have multiple bags that we carry that are full of thoughts. We stuff them full and don’t take anything out. We just add your bags.
2026-10-02 10:15:22
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Tonya Marie :
Can you hold my hand next time?
2026-10-12 19:25:18
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SOPHIE SHRADER :
it’s hard to hear what you’re saying when your hair looks that good
2026-10-01 04:21:31
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angelpresto77 :
So true. I struggle with this
2026-09-30 15:59:59
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Britney :) :
Relationships are so hard
2026-09-30 23:00:35
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Jessalynn Bowman :
You have explained this better than anyone. Thank you!
2026-09-30 15:38:10
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Rachel :
future faking myself 🙃
2026-09-30 07:52:53
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sofia🪽 :
I needed this so bad🥲
2026-09-30 17:09:49
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userrr10261015 :
& your right because as your talking im wondering if i should get a seafood boil today or not idk
2026-10-20 13:03:26
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claire | booktok 🌷🎀🪩📚 :
I totally get this and sometimes I have a fight in my head on what to address what really matters vs what I can just “push under the rug” or how often I should bring things up or how much I should hone in on something because I know his brain doesn’t work like mine does and mine constantly over thinks
2026-10-01 21:38:00
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rianne_rxm :
This was so helpful, thank you!
2026-10-03 11:48:36
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kirbstercar :
I actually need u
2026-10-01 23:44:47
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grow & glow with samira :
It’s so interesting because different men have asked me “what are you thinking about?” when I spend time with them. And in those moments my answers was always “hm, nothing really” and it was never that “nothing!” 😒, it was always just purely calm and content. And they never believed me. And interestingly, I never had the urge to ask them that question during those moments.
2026-10-02 10:55:40
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catiaccouto :
Yeah I need to change this
2026-09-30 20:53:57
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cait :
this is good ass advice
2026-10-01 17:25:29
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🧚🏻♀️ :
girl I needed that thank you so so much 🫶🏻
2026-10-01 14:40:16
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hittscarlett :
Thank you I need to check myself, I’m in way too deep. 😭
2026-10-01 03:12:08
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sash¡! :
actually i felt more invested because he was still dating his "ex" the whole nine months we were together lol
2026-10-01 08:47:22
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user3927613666670 :
WAIT…my boyfriend has been trying to say this. He’s like “I love you and I’m always thinking about you, but when I’m doing something my mind is focused on that.” I took it as an insult and that he didn’t really “think” of me….oops.
2026-10-29 15:49:15
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