@savannahkay22: Lobola really had me thinking about the perspective we don’t always talk about. 🤍 To the men: What was going through your mind when you were paying lobola for the woman you loved? To the women: If your man paid lobola for you, did you ever stop to think about the sacrifice he was making? And honestly, regardless of how people choose to approach lobola, I think there’s something meaningful about acknowledging the man who made the commitment, prepared for it, and followed through. So shout out to the men who have gone through the process for the women they love. 🤍 #Lobola #ZimbabweanTikTok #ZimTikTok #AfricanMarriage #MarriageTalk

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...punchwuu
....punchwu .. :
its a moment of madness 😫😫😫😫😫 ... a lot of man really regret that day😫😫
2026-09-28 04:50:16
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leeroyngorima
Leellie :
Just to get it done with
2026-10-20 13:51:11
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brucetanakamumba
Bruce Tanaka :
someone is going to pay 5000usd at once but haasati amboita deal rinomupa 1000usd at once 💔
2026-09-28 07:58:48
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oasys.estock
oasys estock :
it's a scam taura hako kk
2026-10-20 02:57:43
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tiny_.k
Tiny K :
I feel really bad for most people in the comment section. When I went to pay I had always known that it was a stage we had to go through in order to be with my wife that I love . In doing it and saving up it gives you the assurance of what you are willing to sacrifice for the one that you love. As a man who is devoted to saying you love someone that’s a moment you show how much you are really willing to sacrifice for the woman you love.If you truly love your wife like Christ loves the church you would not think about the money aspect of it . I was blessed with an amazing wife and the value she has brought to my life makes me want to go and pay more to her parents .Yes I might have paid a big sum of money but it all depends on who you are getting married to and why you are getting married. If you are still stressing about Lobola what about when you plan a white wedding. As a man just marry someone that you genuinely love and that loves ,that way we will have less men coming here resenting something that is meant to be beautiful
2026-09-28 19:46:17
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drmusaofficial
Dr Musa :
Lobola used to be a family affair. Back in the day, the family would contribute, and cattle would come from your father’s kraal. Somewhere along the way, we lost that tradition. Nowadays, young men are left to hustle for everything on their own. Even the relatives negotiating on your behalf know they won’t be the ones paying, so they can carelessly agree to demands that leave you with a lifetime bill! 🥶😂 We’ve turned lobola tradition into a financial nightmare for young men.
2026-10-17 23:55:21
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nkosilathisiteba
Isheanesu :
inin hangu, its better to be a priest than kuroora. Plus ini l can say handifi ndakaita musikana, coz l was heart broken😭😭. Musikana anonzi Tine arimuno here iii akandibhaizira big time💔💔
2026-10-20 16:50:10
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king_don_photography_zw
king_don_photography_zw :
Pressure. You start to regret the day she starts disrespecting you. Telling you kuti she can't do her wife duties because she ain't your maid. So me saving money for Lobola what what was I sacrificing for??
2026-10-20 07:43:22
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oneskipper7
Oneskipper :
lobola ndo corruption yati fighter yacho
2026-09-28 03:56:00
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one_jorijo
Big Josh :
ndichikura ndaifunga kuti conductor mwana wadriver
2026-09-29 06:57:35
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mhukahuruofficial
mhukahuruofficial :
Marrying end of this year. Inini i took my time to do things for myself, a stable career, car, stands and do some stuff for my family and now i am ready to focus on her and our future children without too much pressure. I advise marrying a bit later. Chimboita masinhi ako
2026-09-30 08:34:57
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giftmushohwe
M.G🇿🇼👑 :
"I hope I will not regret this" this statement will be racing through the men's mind😶
2026-09-28 10:22:33
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sidneydondo
Sidney Dondo :
The day honestly I could care less for except seeing my person looking nice and happy. The real decision I've already made at proposal and telling her the money is now there. I have already seen that having this person in my life far outweighs my "music dreams" and I'm ready to "not have a choice" but to work for my family all day everyday. I would pick marrying my wife again any day.
2026-09-28 06:50:11
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_takundag_
Takunda G :
just getting through it and paying back the loans
2026-09-28 12:20:00
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roobwoywacho4
roobwoywacho4 :
we do it for you man don't like paying lobola we don't like weddings we don't fucking remember yo birthday or our anniversary we end up doing these things bcz of you coz we love you our cute swt creatures 🥰
2026-09-28 20:53:59
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tendai.karuma
Tendai Karuma :
When i did it , i wasn’t thinking about anything 😅. I had everything planned in advance so there was nothing to think about
2026-09-28 03:10:03
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_psalms6
Psalms 6 :
I overthink about that a lot 😂 This is why I’m 30 and unmarried: I’m emotionally attached to my money. Every time I think about it, I get a little nauseous 🤣🤣🤣 Zvakaoma.…even paying bills make me sick 😂🤣
2026-09-28 12:56:08
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user2307981752606
AlphaDeeTee101 :
corruption and the whole scam inenge iripo
2026-09-28 04:23:20
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mtisi96
ShakesMtisi :
haa unongobhadhara wangu handi hapana option 😂
2026-09-28 06:30:12
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kudakwashedzombin0
kuda1234 :
eish sometimes its the pressure we get from our loved ones 😪 yes I love her of course I want to marry her but eish 😏😏
2026-09-28 04:22:04
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shenatp
Ryan :
lobola it's an old tradition, which will be very hard to change but kare zvaisanaetsa nekut mwana paizvarwa aipihwa makoroto whether mbudzi, or chimhuru , so paizosvika 25 /28 zvipfuyo zvake zvinenge zvawanda thats what he will use for lobola zvemota kwakusina ndezva manje manje
2026-09-28 03:11:24
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tapiwadindi
Vellanic Taps :
to tell you the truth everyman hakuna dhiri raachavharwa kupfuura rekuroora worst part unoperekedzwa ne hama kunovharwa Mari ,that why everyman on lobola day he look so serious and sad at same time because he will be exhausted and that to think what if , okay after all ndicha benefiter chiit
2026-09-28 04:43:27
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tatie2139
Tatie☺️ :
🥺Please bring me back ..
2026-09-28 00:02:37
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mthunziemathuthu
Mthunzi Mathuthu :
There is no decoration in a proper Lobola 🔥🇿🇼🔥
2026-09-28 06:39:33
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garrie778
garrie :
Now that's a true woman.....one who thinks about kurongeka kwezuva rake👊🏾. Now as men, it's never really about the money but something much deeper and long term. We think of the decision of joining families and loving enough to go and get my parents a daughter and my siblings a sibling. We think of the teammate that we have decided to join forces with in the life journey because if someone pays lobola at a young age he practically wants to win in life e.g getting his first home with the one he loves as a team.
2026-09-28 04:01:36
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