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Communicating with other neurodivergent people is easy
2026-09-28 00:02:48
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Kevin :
Yeh this is so hard to explain to people, that like especially when I’m in autistic shut down. It’s not that I don’t even want to talk, which may be the case, but it is physically impossible for me to do so. It’s almost like I’ve forgotten how to actually speak. I may open my mouth to attempt to say something, and nothing comes out and I close it again. I never knew what this was about until my diagnosis.
2026-09-30 09:54:38
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Hermit :
thank you. my brain scream at me to just open my mouth.
2026-09-29 02:32:09
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allykatlux :
Ugh 😫 I haven’t been able to explain myself when people ask me to until I found your videos. Thank you for the detailed explanations!! 💚
2026-10-01 03:01:57
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Jared Lannen :
for me it feels like im choking on the words but in my mind. its not a physical choking but it has physical consequences.
2026-09-27 23:16:23
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Paulie | Crea tu Vida 💗💫 :
i'm so burnt out i feel like talking in and of itself is masking for me
2026-09-28 23:13:51
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Rob :
i get so confused and upset about it cause i actually enjoy some people and want them to be my friend but i genuinely can’t communicate to them.
2026-09-30 15:11:33
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Martin☆ :
So I looked into this but for acousticism and found that severe overstimulation and overwhelm and lead to an involuntary ability to speak at certain times. I’ve dealt with this in certain crises and it felt like sleep paralysis in a way.
2026-09-29 02:22:24
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jennaunmasked :
As an autistic person who is also a rhetoric scholar, I hate how much I analyze everyone's words and try to find their hidden intentions as well as how much I analyze my own words.
2026-09-28 16:25:09
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willorbillie :
Girl now I’m like huh…. I’ve been told I make TOO MUCH eye contact. And not to throw any other late diagnosed autistic individuals off but IS THIS MASKING?!?
2026-09-29 19:37:24
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lokiiejuice :
words are important and i don’t like that words are meaningless a lot of the time now because ppl use words without meaning them aND using words without caring to know the meaning and so two ppl can have one conversation and come away happy but not realizing they didn’t communicate ?
2026-09-28 04:03:35
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cantonn :
i can relate so much to this. it is exhausting
2026-09-28 01:09:07
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bree :
not feeling safe to talk... say it louder, I think a few missed it.
2026-09-29 05:26:13
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MommaRxGE :
thank you for making me videos, you have been able to find the words that I can't for some reason.
2026-09-28 13:38:31
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Christian.Autism.ADHD🕊️ :
You explained this so well🤗
2026-09-29 12:35:42
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The Founding Fosters :
i try to explain selectively going mute when stressed/anxious as feeling similar to walking through a mine field. i am so scared to make the wrong move that i stop altogether and shut down
2026-09-29 16:57:24
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Pepper&Butter :
Well said wish I could have others stop to understand this too
2026-09-28 00:08:55
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AuntKeeks02 :
All of this!!!👆👆👆👆
2026-09-28 01:14:48
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Aspen 💅🧚🏽 :
when I have to have really hard conversations I like to have them back to back so I don't have to control my face and look at a face too. I'm always asking for people to narrow it down for me when asking those questions. or tell them that it's too open ended of a question.
2026-09-28 01:21:54
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Cruella De Vil :
I'm trying to learn sign language for this reason
2026-09-29 03:06:21
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Elissa Hofer :
I'm exhausted
2026-09-29 01:59:26
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Anita jobbie 🏴❤️ :
[Red heart] You sis [Cool]
2026-09-28 21:37:02
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Elke :
Im starting to try and make videos and I find myself closing my eyes so I cant see the phone or looking away from the phone which means I have little control over the angle [Tears of joy][Tears of joy][Tears of joy] The phone is too distracting [Tears of joy]
2026-09-28 04:59:29
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RWR :
Yes
2026-09-28 02:51:32
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