@themidnightraven696: The exciting person but doesn't treat you well or someone who takes good care of you but is considered "boring"? lmk in the comments #BookTok
Safety equals stability to me so I’d love the boring person. We can be boring together.
2026-09-29 06:03:38
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Lee Catherine :
Never settling for less than all of it ever again. 🖤
2026-09-30 04:15:19
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📚smyer :
Safety. In the safety you can create the fire without the hurt
2026-09-28 00:37:29
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🐦⬛Raven’s.Grace🖤 :
Embarrassing fact, but I’ve never dated or been in a relationship before, so I have no input but I am enjoying the comments section…
2026-09-28 00:49:35
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Zoe✨ :
I’d rather be alone. 💕
2026-09-29 01:13:09
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Caity_tv :
I need the safety
2026-09-28 19:39:59
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⛓️💥BrattyRinRin⛓️💥 :
Okay, but if you’re in the mindset of “settling” you’re doing a disservice to you both. Cause yes, they can love and care for you, but if you don’t return the feelings? That’s not a relationship, that’s you not being willing to give up your safety net. But hot fires burn bright, but not for long. You can have fun, even a really good friendship can come of it. But long term? That’s a struggle, if you’re always fighting, you’re not loving…. My opinion, anyway[Embarrassed][Embarrassed][Embarrassed]
2026-09-28 00:04:28
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Jenn :
It’s a great question! Cause I’m in my safety relationship and debating. The fires important though 😩
2026-09-28 00:00:59
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GG_Rory😇😘 :
safety. someone who loves you would always acknowledge and take care of you.
2026-09-27 23:59:42
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O-so-Dizzy :
I choose therapy, so that I can make different decisions and build the self worth to know that options 3, 4, 5...are also possible.
2026-09-28 00:02:56
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💜Amber💜 :
D. Neither. Would much rather stay single than be with another person who neglects me but also don't want to hurt someone by being with them and not feeling how they do.
2026-09-28 16:49:46
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The One Jenny to Rule Them All :
“Boring” can be fixed. When the fire burns itself out, you’ll be destroyed by the person who didn’t care.
2026-09-28 05:50:09
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moonlitneko26 :
Neither if I can’t have safety & 🔥 at the same time then it’s not worth the energy especially where I have a child to worry about her wellbeing always comes 1st even b4 a relationship all my ex’s b4 never understood this! Drives me nuts!
2026-09-28 19:46:03
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brims.cosplay :
Safety. Because safety creates fire. I’ve been in the fire plus neglect. It’s toxic. Why choose toxicity which in the long run can affect your health? Why put yourself in a scheisse relationship that has the potential to cause autoimmune problems from the stress? It’s not worth it. A man who gives me that safety will automatically create the passion because I’m grateful for someone to care. That’s hot AF
2026-09-28 00:04:43
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annasunshine :
Neither, not fair to anyone in the end. If had to make a choice safety for sure.
2026-09-28 00:23:08
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Jessica🦋 :
Honestly, neither. It’s not fair to them or me. Go find the person who makes you want to get up in the morning and treats you with respect.
2026-09-28 00:24:53
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TrinityMoon :
Neither... been there done that with both types.
2026-09-29 00:39:11
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🖤🎪Bite-sizedKitten💜⚡️ :
depends on if you're looking for long or short term. you can't deal with that ignoring, drama, unacknowledged shit for 60+ years and expect to be happy lol
2026-09-28 00:54:22
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AshleyTheNailGirlie :
I would rather be with someone who makes me feel safe. I feel fire for that person. I can’t feel something for someone who ignores me.
2026-09-28 00:24:59
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Sage :
I had the fire gimme the safety any day. luckily I have both now so I don't have to worry about it lol
2026-09-28 02:17:49
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🐨Amanda🐨📚🕯🌹 :
ummmm.....don't ask me cuz i always choose the wrong ones 😂😂😂
2026-09-28 04:40:12
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FeralFoxᛑᛗᛛ :
But what was YOUR answer?
2026-09-28 03:45:50
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Cat ♡ :
Safety all the way
2026-09-28 03:38:00
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AGUILARmx :
Вы выглядите очень привлекательно.
2026-09-28 03:02:38
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veairah :
I need passion and fire. However if I don’t feel truly safe I can’t feel that intensity so I want both. I need both.
2026-09-28 02:38:14
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