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Sav :
For me, it turned into everytime someone has a conversation in a different room, I have severe anxiety. I truly believe that every conversation in another room that I can hear, is just full of terrible things being said about me. And I can’t relax 💔
2026-09-28 04:01:20
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🌱 𝓚𝓻𝓲𝓼𝓽𝔂 🌿 :
due to experiencing this as a kid, I purposefully fake conversations with my husband when my 8 year old is walking by or about to enter the room, about how proud we are of her or how wonderful she is.
2026-09-29 02:52:24
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TheDadHUD :
After my mom got angry and chased me with a knife, she grabbed me by the throat and held me down. She told me I didn't deserve to keep living and it was my fault that she was still stuck in my hometown. She later apologized and said it was because she was pregnant and that's why she was upset. I was 10. I'm now 40 and can still feel her anger even though she passed away in 2019. Do I still love my mother? Yes. Do I still feel worthy to be living? No.
2026-09-28 05:54:26
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Hannaly books :
I walked into the room and I very quietly said please don’t talk about me to people that I have never met when I’m not here to stand up for myself. And then my dad came downstairs and beat me up for s
2026-09-28 04:57:45
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shei :
Parents literally help mold us into who we are so they should be ashamed of themselves if they have issues with who you are.
2026-09-28 16:30:42
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Bassic104 :
My adoptive mother would talk about me to her friends at church. I remember one of them was a nurse and she came and talked to me, and once she got my viewpoint of things, she berated my mother for talking about her child that she chose to adopt like that. My mom came home and yelled at me saying they weren’t friends anymore “because of my lies”. I went years and eventually talked to that nurse again and she said my mom chose to stop being friends with her because she didn’t want to take responsibility for what she’d done
2026-09-28 13:06:27
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Eli :
had this happen. heard my parents calling me self absorbed because i talked about how my day went at school mind you they asked. after that for the next 4 years i stopped telling them.
2026-09-28 04:09:21
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Sam Neill :
god this is seriously my biggest fear. That my daughters will hear me lose it in my worst moments and never get over it. That they will internalize MY failures and pain. 😩
2026-09-28 19:12:13
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abbi.win :
Is this play about me?
2026-09-28 02:24:03
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jmixxit :
I moved out of my mothers home and into my dads because of this.
2026-09-29 23:27:31
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Stephanie :
My mum used to publicly bitch about me to everyone.. (trying to get sympathy points) most of what she said wasn’t even true and she wonder why me and my sister grew up with no confidence or self esteem.
2026-09-30 02:48:32
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ayla 🌿 :
And now anytime anyone says my name when I’m not around, I automatically assume it’s bad and that I need to kiss their ass 😔
2026-09-28 04:12:18
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C4SK3T :
I said i didn't feel safe or loved, mom replied; "just keep telling yourself that, I hope you find someone to feed your delusions" not even reassurance or an i love you. told me everything I have to know
2026-09-29 11:47:56
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myriah🪬✨ :
the counselor in school said i needed help and i overhead him saying im more fked up than he thought and laughing about it
2026-09-28 12:49:30
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SweetOleAimee🖤 :
My mom and her different husbands did this! When your own mom can bad mouth you, allow others to bad mouth you and agree with it. That’s when you know it’s okay to back away and go no contact. I’ve leaned it’s her own in- securities not mine. Did it hurt, yes! Do I finally not “care”, yes! 🙌🏽 I will “NEVER” bad mouth my kids like my mom and both of her husbands did to me and my siblings.
2026-09-29 14:42:14
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min :
i always heard my mom calling my grandma to talk horribly about my after any argument we had and i would hide behind a door or corner and watch her make me sound like an absolute monster to my grandma
2026-09-29 07:16:39
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🎀 Lorrie 🎀 :
when i was 12, we just moved in from an environment i wasnt familiar with, my mom and my uncle made me do all the chores at that house. whenever i told her i cant and im tired she would call me ‘lazy’ and ‘selfish’. my little brother and little sister told me im not but what my mom said still sticks with me today.
2026-09-29 15:54:20
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shiloh_black :
I found out the whole family was talking bad about me while we were camping. My dad described me as a b!tch and that was one of the most painful heartbreaks. I was 8.
2026-09-28 11:41:21
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DenisaGabriela. DAR :
My husband and I will talk about our kids and only say really good things , eg: how smart, creative,funny they are or brag about something they did or said. So if they hear us , it’s positive . If there is anything about them that needs to be discussed it is done when they are not home/ we are away from home .
2026-09-28 13:30:56
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fancytrees :
i intentionally hype my kids up in aide conversations cause i know they be listening. then i walk and they playing ps5 just grinning ear to ear
2026-09-28 05:24:01
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untoldthoughtz :
my parents said it to my face.
2026-09-28 04:09:11
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freak.for.nature :
When I was 9-10 I found a text from my mom on my dads phone talking about how much of a little bitch I am
2026-09-28 04:17:17
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Taytay❤️ :
My moms room and my room shared a small but long balcony that was screened in and the walls were paper thin it felt cause whenever she went to smoke a cig out there I could hear when she’d call my aunt if I pissed her off and her opening everytime would be “guess what fattypatty did today” and she’d just go on and on
2026-09-28 11:13:29
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Justina B. :
I eavesdropped once they said “I was going to be something great someday! And that I was so kind!” I believed it, I hope they are proud of me. 😅
2026-09-28 04:13:39
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