I think a lot of people struggle with silences and if they don’t have another topic in que when the current one ends “how are you?” Comes out as a panicked default (anything to fill the void!) And yes, they are mega nervous!
2026-09-29 00:36:26
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WK :
Im not dating but this has happened to me in just normal conversations with coworkers. Like... are they just not paying attention or am I doing something wrong???
2026-09-28 02:40:03
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Brian :
Plot twist you’re in the matrix. None of it is real
2026-10-11 18:47:27
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PapaYankee :
You said something that made them think you’re not okay
2026-10-10 09:18:00
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ssharak1 :
I think it might be because they care about you! Always wanting to make sure you ok means they care!
2026-09-28 03:15:45
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Tony :
what do you think
2026-10-08 01:14:15
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KatyaNRizkallah :
My family dog died and a man asked me out the same day. I said no cause my dog died and he went “but you’re alive and you’re so sexy” 👁️👄👁️
2026-09-28 17:34:47
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Dawn Adams :
They want clarification, possibly nervous at the first ask and came back around for conversation material I'm not good with names so if you told me earlier it might not have registered so I might wait till someone calls you by name or have to ask again even having a full conversation. Having our conversation with you to me would take more importance over me knowing your name. Maybe they were still coming to grip with getting there or a mishap getting ready.. Once I start listening I don't miss anything you say but the first few minutes I could be distracted, maybe they're like me.
2026-10-03 20:11:19
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J.A. Boz Author :
So it isn't just in messages? 😱
2026-10-10 14:34:29
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Spear30 :
Nerves
2026-09-28 13:15:31
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Sam :
Maybe a little bit of both. Sometimes lack of conversation can come from being nervous. I'm not surprised if they were nervous. You are a wonderful human being.
2026-09-30 05:53:07
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Patty Lupinek Havens :
I think they were nervous in the beginning and probably didn’t hear ur answer. Then they are more relaxed and actually can hear ur answer now so ask again (and probably don’t recall already asking)
2026-09-28 17:42:47
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becoming intentional :
I had one ask how my day was. I said terrible my cat had emergency surgery so I had to close my store today and be home to take care of my cat. not even 20 minutes later..."so how was work today?"
2026-09-28 12:19:23
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Eric_Jaffa :
Maybe they're hoping for a more frank answer to "How are you?" later on in the conversation than when it was part of greeting you.
2026-10-10 04:56:14
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Izzy_writes :
They’re nervous girl
2026-09-28 21:14:05
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Lalo :
🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
2026-09-28 03:03:35
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user8295467433804 :
😂😂😂
2026-10-24 00:51:18
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