Codependency Kate
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Andrew H :
100% accurate! I experienced everything on this list PLUS one you missed… Demotion - the prioritization of friends, neighbors and other less significant relationships.
2026-09-28 21:06:09
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Lou x :
This is so validating to see. I genuinely thought I was loosing my mind and going insane
2026-09-29 14:13:32
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sukiii :
What is the difference between avoidance abuse and narcissistic abuse
2026-09-28 23:07:37
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hizlenry :
It always felt like control to me. But it’s generally not protested that way in all the clinical research. But I certainly felt I had NO influence over the relationship.
2026-09-28 13:44:48
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Seun 🫧 :
I went through all this lol
2026-09-28 15:01:17
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Vibes Somellier :
This makes me feel so very validated. And also makes me feel better that it was so hard to clock in real time
2026-09-29 11:29:23
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taeethegreat :
went through this entire diagram
2026-09-29 03:40:41
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another_unavailable_username :
Is there an inverse of this as well? idk if "anxious abuse" would be the right term, but i am very curious if that is also a consideration. I do think this is helpful, but I am also aware of how difficult it is for a lot of anxiously attached folks to differentiate between secure boundaries, avoidance, and abuse.
2026-09-28 16:03:18
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Lisa For Real :
This is ah-maze. Whoa.
2026-09-28 16:05:20
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flower_blooms4 :
It’s hurts so bad that looking back it was all abuse. And I just stick around and even thought it was love and normal. And still I miss him 😫
2026-09-28 19:57:38
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Flying_Z_71 :
I see you have met my ex wife
2026-09-28 12:17:04
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Daysha Champlain :
I have never. Ever. Felt so seen. This. All the things I couldn’t name but felt every day for 20yrs. Thank you.
2026-09-29 02:52:24
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Ember :
NPD abuse uses both avoidance and overt abuse.
2026-09-29 01:19:07
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Kayla :
Thank you so much for making this. It puts words to invisible pain
2026-09-29 03:17:14
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Angela :
Gaaahhhhhh!!
2026-09-28 11:45:21
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AlmostEntropy :
This is my mom 💔
2026-09-28 23:20:12
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mo_gets_her_groove_back :
just roughly ended a relationship because of this. I say roughly because this is hard to identify in motion over time.
2026-09-28 09:25:49
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Arie Gabriel :
I have been waiting a couple years for someone to put together “abuse “ and “avoidant.” But avoidant attachment underlies neurology (adhd or autism) and personality/ disorder. These behaviors might be also based in these too
2026-09-28 20:54:00
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Julieta :
THANK YOU
2026-09-29 00:11:02
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Sunshine :
❤️
2026-09-28 13:28:39
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