@sophieberen: this might be an unpopular opinion, but if they wanted to, they would and I’m learning this the hard way, so hopefully you don’t have to ##hardconversations##honestconversations##realconversations##theconversationalist##friendshipadvice

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sidstreams_ttv
SidStreams_TTV :
Or maybe their actions showed you how they felt about you. Sometimes actions speak more than words and when someone shows you who they are believe them.
2026-09-28 06:51:44
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otterwaterbotterbox
OtterWaterBotterBox :
What about when the conversation always get turned and you are the problem? Hard to want to continue a relationship with someone who is never in the wrong and bulldozes over everyone.
2026-09-28 07:36:51
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lauriewritesbooks
LaurieWrites📚 :
I’m having trouble accepting this, though, because he had the hard conversation with me, many times, but then I kept wanting to have it because I was still uneasy, and he got sick of being overwhelmed. I never thought he would suddenly abandon me, but I understand that I pushed him away.
2026-09-29 13:11:41
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chaosmanical
ChaosUnknown :
we had to beg them to talk to us, i still don't think i'll trust them when we do have it, it's been over a MONTH since THEY said they would be ready to have the convo, legit got engaged before they told us they were ready
2026-09-29 22:05:18
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aggie_ragazza
Zee :
Having to shut them out for your own peace when all you want is to have them back so badly. But then having it turned on you every single time… 💔
2026-09-29 00:45:46
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av__2296
av__2296 :
She was upset with me and instead of telling me and talking it out, she distanced herself from me and i never knew anything was wrong for a whole year… she just got married yesterday and i wasn’t even invited to the wedding all over a misunderstanding that could’ve been hashed out if she just told me
2026-09-28 18:53:32
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salgal_21
Desertgirl :
I stopped being willing to start the hard conversations and that’s when the friendship drifted. My husband sucks at hard conversation and wants to sweep things under the rug. I can’t have a friendship like that too.
2026-09-28 14:26:21
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lamboeri
Lamboeri | Built by Eri Ali :
i think it's important to know the difference between someone who needs time to process things and someone who keeps avoiding the conversation. one may genuinely need space before they're ready to talk. the other might keep you waiting without ever intending to address the problem. that's why it's worth paying attention to what happens after you give them space
2026-10-08 04:03:04
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spicyquesadilla5683
Sierra Hageman 🐾📚 :
It’s so hard 💔
2026-09-30 23:46:23
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chasingdownadaydream
caroline :
yep! opened the door to a conversation about not feeling shown up for and all i got was excuses and defensiveness and they had the audacity to tell me this needed to be a bigger conversation like girl that’s what i’m trying to do
2026-09-28 13:51:08
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arcticblondee
Chey :
Needed to save this incase I get guilty late at night 😅
2026-09-29 22:26:49
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oneswiftlover
Ashton | SWIFTIE TRIP HOST :
And there is time to take space and gather yourself but if you use it with the capacity to talk about it to others while saying you don’t have the capacity to talk TO me when I asked for that-you don’t respect me.
2026-10-06 19:07:38
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lorrigailmoffatt
Lorri Gail Moffatt in GA :
Or maybe no response is the response…..
2026-09-28 21:26:27
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lovelylibra206
Kataangsquad :
As someone who always was the fixer and the one who always bled in the friendship/ relationship. It took years for me to learn this.
2026-09-28 09:01:49
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lauren.sarmiento
lauren.sarmiento :
Thank you for this. 🫶
2026-10-06 03:05:14
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tbc345
TBC :
really sucks tho
2026-10-01 01:52:46
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tidepod18
Elysia || Mama of 2 🩷🩵 :
this!!!
2026-10-07 22:17:57
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reganinreallife
ReganInRealLife :
WELL SAID
2026-10-01 23:47:39
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glampfiremarynj
GlampFireMary :
what if they have unrealistic expectations and every few years she is mad and really only happy with you if you do things for her and don't have boundaries ... yea - chose not to chase this time ...
2026-09-28 23:56:36
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aidan_abetting
Nadia :
I gave up and blocked her access to me now. The door was open for two years. She proved it was worth closing. She has an indirect way, if she ever realizes she was blocked (she hasn’t)
2026-09-29 22:43:16
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cyanmmunoz
Cy :
Thank you 🫶🏻
2026-09-29 03:39:58
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brittknee2086
Brittknee :
@frankie111316
2026-09-28 22:08:26
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jennilynn13
Jenni :
👏👏
2026-10-04 10:21:18
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