@gagasifm: Our listener is a 35-year-old man who has sacrificed everything—even downgrading his car—to support his girlfriend after she resigned from her job. But things have turned dark. She is now addicted to gambling, selling gifts he bought her, and drowning in debt. He loves her deeply, kodwa he’s at a breaking point. Should he pay the R21,500 to clear her debt, or will that just teach her that he’ll always be there to bail her out? 🧐 Ake nisibone ngezimvo zenu, what would you do? 👇 ☎️: 0861596596 📱: Send a Voice Note via our Mobile App 🌐: Stream online: gagasiworld.co.za 📲: Listen via the Gagasi FM App #KhethileKhethile #GagasiFMMidMornings #GagasiFM #TheSoundOfKZN
Bhuti my advice to you please Woza Kimi I will love you 🙆🏻♀️
2026-09-28 17:39:13
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PortiaM9898 :
I know someone who was a gambling addict; now she’s in jail. If you truly love her, help her seek counseling and use her allowance to support it.
2026-09-28 13:06:33
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APPLE :
Leave her, she needs to figure things out on her own so she can get a wake up call. You did your best, let her go
2026-09-28 11:18:09
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Mama Thuls :
How much does he get paid 😳
2026-09-28 10:39:32
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❤️Shlangu Sihle Saka MaMlaba❤️ :
One thing about gambling, iyakwazi ukuphendula ipara
2026-09-28 10:50:50
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@AutiZerowitdaspecs :
Amandoda aright ave enamabhadi
2026-09-28 11:45:10
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The Duke of Mgungundlovu :
lova must pay lo21k and leave.
2026-09-28 09:38:24
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Mbalenhle_mabaso 🇿🇦 :
Why can’t I get a man that’s this kind 😏
2026-09-28 14:30:24
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Paseka MQ 🇿🇦🇿🇦 :
You take responsibility for YOUR WIFE not a girlfriend
2026-09-28 14:23:19
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andiletwala87 :
Yini lena oyakhayo
2026-09-28 15:23:12
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LadyDeeStyles :
Where do some women find these men…? Like R9k on top of paying rent etc… 🙆🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️… Hao Nkosi yam…
2026-09-28 15:53:20
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Isthandilerh :
My flat mate was like this as well engingakusho ukuthi such people have no sense of responsibility, ababongi, abanamkhawulo....in short nje they are incosiderate and reckless. Mawumsiza usuke usutheze elinenkume wiiieh.
Don't even pay this 21k. She's not your wife but a girlfriend too, ksasa angavuka athi uyabonga akasakuceli. It's enabling. You've downgraded to accommodate her and her lifestyle. That was a sacrifice not many are willing to take. If she still has abazali, they must deal with their child. Wena love her into healing, even if it's from a distance for a while.
2026-09-28 09:46:34
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Maps :
hai ubhuti akaboni akunanto azoyakha nocc 😳😳seriously akunakusasa elakhiwa laa but ucc s draining him
2026-09-28 18:03:12
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Sihle Ndlovu :
Ay shuthi mina angiyindoda yalutho🥲
2026-09-28 16:25:19
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Karabo Mokankane :
Biggest mistake on deciding on fully supporting her. Now she can take you to court if you stop supporting her.
2026-09-28 14:26:01
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storm child :
Tell her family what’s really happening so that she can get the help & support she needs, bese uyamshiya. Unfortunately, pathological gamblers don’t change, the cycle repeats itself until your relationship with her becomes toxic.
2026-09-28 11:49:50
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uFejii :
Ugqugquzela isenzo sakhe.
2026-09-28 10:33:47
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Simphiwe🧸 :
Never bhuti don’t pay it let her see the mass she has created
2026-09-28 10:07:56
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