@it.accel: Most engineers who accept a counter-offer are gone within six months anyway. The raise felt like a win. It rarely fixes what made them look in the first place. Here is what usually plays out. They were not really leaving over money. They were leaving over the manager, the ceiling, the work that stopped growing, or the quiet feeling of being stuck. Then a bigger number lands on the table, and it is tempting to believe that was the problem all along. Here is what a counter-offer almost never fixes: The reasons you wanted to leave are almost never about the paycheck. A raise changes the number, not the role, the manager, or the ceiling above you. Accepting one can quietly change how your commitment is viewed by the people you report to. Six months later the same frustrations are back, and now you have lost the momentum you had built toward a real move. A counter-offer answers a question you were not actually asking. It buys the company time and buys you a delay. If the reasons were real in month one, they will still be real in month seven. Have you ever accepted a counter-offer? Tell us how it played out in the comments.

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