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krylla :
WARING LONG MEESAGE AHEAD!! (1) First of all, I’m not invalidating the feelings of older siblings🥹 I just want to share my story as a youngest sibling. During my early years especially nung elementary ako, I was really dependent on my sister. Like, sobra. I would let her do almost everything for me, even my projects and yung type na bata na wala masyado ginagawa except mag laro lang. My sister on the other hand, inremember her as one of the kindest people I knew. She respected our elders, cared so much about our mom, and even though I was a makulit na younger sister who would always complain, she was always patient and understanding with me. But when the pandemic happened, she changed. She stopped being the older sister I knew. She started hurting me emotionally, and after the pandemic, when we were both supposed to start high school, I found out that she had stopped going to school. I was really shocked because she had always been consistent honor student and really cared about her grades. She didn’t just stop going to school, she also stopped going outside and would mostly just stay at home. We suspected that bullying might have been one of the reasons. But I genuinely think na I had a big part on her changed because I know I took advantage of her kindness when we were younger. Inaamin ko na I was selfish, and immature back then.
2026-09-30 18:08:20
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so kate 🍷 :
for us who can’t repost 🥲
2026-09-28 19:54:03
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🍒 :
universal experience talaga masabihan ng "kasi kaya mo. iba ka sakanila" and is that supposed to make me feel better???? 😭
2026-09-29 04:23:10
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rc :
i thought being short tempered is my personality but nuhhh its the effect of being independent and figuring out alone on my early days. Im sick of people who doesn’t have sense of urgency but maybe because Im so used to rush everything on my own. 🥺
2026-09-28 23:45:20
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heinz :
kanino na
2026-09-29 02:07:24
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onennaaa :
ate ang agaaa pa oh
2026-09-28 21:52:38
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mauve_olive :
idk if it's just me pero minsan nakikita ko na my parents treat my siblings as anak while they treat me like I'm my siblings' parents, gets nyo ba?😅
2026-09-28 23:41:58
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Ceddyy, CPA :
“Noong nag aaral yan, hindi kami nahirapan diyan”
2026-09-29 23:05:04
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Yanyan :
As a panganay, hindi ko naramdaman yung inis sa younger siblings ko. I had to figure out everything on my own and I’m happy whenever they call me instead of my parents when they need help. Siguro that’s how I heal my inner child.
2026-09-28 23:56:01
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baked potatoe :
And sometimes, I honestly think that parents make us do those things for our siblings not just because we’re reliable but because they didn’t want to deal with the fact that they have to teach certain things that they didn’t teach us. We’ll “figure it out”
2026-09-28 19:57:38
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zed :
I’m the youngest, but this is my life right now. I had to step up and become the panganay, while the panganay gets to be the youngest. It’s hard to ask for help when everyone thinks being independent just comes naturally to you. They don’t see how exhausting it can be to always be the one who figures things out, carries things, and keeps going.
2026-09-29 05:34:35
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clyde🐱 :
parentified daughter, indeed
2026-09-29 01:15:22
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Jow | Travel :
Agaaaa ng almusal 😭😭
2026-09-28 23:08:14
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jayveebeeee🏳️🌈 :
And the audacity to scrutinize everything you do when you never even asked for anything in return, especially when they haven’t done anything for you in return either.
2026-09-28 22:16:50
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purple rain :
omg this hits home! u perfectly said what i was really feeling 🥲🥲
2026-09-28 16:40:15
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MondpreyFinds :
It’s not you or your younger siblings. It’s your parents
2026-09-30 14:54:57
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Jai :
It's also kinda exhausting too but they wouldn't understand that or the frustrations it gives you because you need to be the one that should be strong and understanding na anak ng magulang mo and kapatid. Well, yeah I can't even complain to them
2026-09-29 13:25:10
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Duckynie :
I was always jealous of my younger sibling because of it but now I kind of pity him. Now it feels like he lacks confidence in doing things on his own. I wish my parents should have let him experience doing things on his own even if it means failing. Now it's harder for him to deal with failures and he now refuse to try new things.
2026-09-28 23:49:14
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𐙚𝑒𝒶𝓃𝓃𝑒 :
ano to, almusal? HAHAHAHQHQ
2026-09-28 23:53:25
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dos :
and also sa sa household chores, pag inutusan yung kapatid ko tas ayaw nyang sundin ako yung uutusan, ok lang sa kanila na hindi sumunod yung kapatid ko kasi alam nila na pag sakin ipinasa yung gawain susunod ako.
2026-09-29 00:58:14
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acushla :
Why am I fucking sobbing at 11am
2026-09-29 03:16:42
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Vine Ren :
it's always unfair that younger siblings can get away with so many things but it's easier for parents to put the blame on older ones because we just accept it as something na wala eh wala nang magagawa
2026-09-28 23:22:39
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LenaMiu Real Stories :
Why do they assume “kaya natin” lahat ? Kinakaya nalang kasi we used to figure things out ourselves, but the last thing we could figure out is how to ask for help.
2026-09-29 03:59:34
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SH★RI :
Middle Child that they don't need to worry about ❤️🩹
2026-09-29 05:45:35
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˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ :
I remember when I was young, pag dumadating ang exam ako lang mag isa nag rereview para sa sarili ko. Then when my sister turn turuan ko daw siya. Bata pa ako nun when i ask my mother na bat nung ako wala naman nagturo saken natutunan ko naman bat siya? Then she said, Kasi kaya mo naman mag isa. Simula nun ayon na yung tumatatak saken as a elder daughter.
2026-09-29 02:48:49
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