@unpunishablewoman: Sometimes exercising self-authority means allowing people to misunderstand you rather than endlessly explaining why you chose your own dignity. For women leaving or questioning religious environments, that can mean surrendering the need to still be seen as obedient, humble or a “good woman.”

♀️👩‍👧‍👧 🇿🇦 🇮🇪 :

what helped you to find the courage to do this?

amora :

shame does not exist to me

Anyiti Nanyama :

I like being a bad girl

Olivia|Your Boujee Budget Babe :

You never miss. I’ve had to unlearn being a people pleaser.

Thelma kadiramwando :

You can’t shame the shameless. I choose to be shameless 🥰

💓 :

thisss, and in general you literally won’t be able to please everyone

Ingrid :

This is also true within toxic family systems

Nicole :

Wow i needed to hear this so BAD

Onyinyechukwu :

Thisssss!!! Thank you Ma’am, you have taught me a lot and I am so grateful!

✨Gild the Goddess✨ :

People have just begun to dislike me in the past year and a half or so…I’m headed in the right direction. 🥰

Tyler Milan :

One thousand percent agree. I don’t care to be a villain in others stories. Sometimes people need be to the villain so they can be the hero. The only story that matters is mine!

Jollofina 😍 Awka Food Vendor :

You can’t shame the shameless

sleyla :

You really inspire me every day thank you for sharing your knowledge with younger women. we need and deserve healed and educated role models like you. ❤️❤️❤️

Folatiana :

I was literally saying this to my friends the other day lol. When you move past the need to be perceived as a ‘good woman’ freedom lies on the other side. I don’t care if the ‘community’ see me as disrespectful or rude. It’s a control tactic to get you to comply. No thanks

Free Swaziland Movement-Team :

Brilliant teaching as always 💯👌

comediankalikey :

Yes. No more explaining

Rex :

I wish I watched your content before marriage and children. But I’m thankful for what to teach my daughters now. Thank you’

Recovering Perfectionist :

You’re incredible, thanks for sharing. Every video is a gem

NQ :

I get called selfish a lot … welp💁🏾‍♀️

michelle_20277 :

Yeah if you want your own goals and make money you will be considered sketch and mentally unstable by society?

Tanya Isahall :

I love this post so much. It speaks to me personally. 👏🏾❤️

lala724 :

I thought of the book The courage to be disliked. Thank you 😊

Not Me :

I deconstructed out of Christianity and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. The repercussions were unreal.

ScorpioFit1 :

Mama C :

YES!!!