@roxytoxy08: One thing I’m learning in my walk with God is that loving people does not mean giving everyone unlimited access to you. You can love someone and still have boundaries. You can pray for someone and still create distance. You can forgive someone without continuing to participate in the same unhealthy cycle. Not everyone who enters your life is meant to walk with you through every season. Some relationships can distract you, drain you, manipulate you, encourage division, or pull your attention away from the person God is calling you to become. That’s why discernment matters. 🤍 Sometimes we keep helping because we feel guilty about stepping away. We think being a good Christian means always saying yes, always being available, and continually rescuing people. But there is a difference between helping someone and enabling a pattern that never changes. I’m learning to ask God: “Lord, give me wisdom about the people in my life. Show me where I need to love more, where I need stronger boundaries, and where I need to step away. Help me recognize what is drawing me closer to You and what is pulling me away from You.” Protecting your peace doesn’t mean you hate anyone. Setting boundaries doesn’t mean you stopped caring. Sometimes you simply have to love people from a distance while continuing to pray for them. Discernment isn’t about judging everyone around you—it’s about asking God for wisdom about what you allow to influence your heart, your mind, and your walk with Him. 🙏🏼🦋 “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23 #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fypシ゚viral #foryoupage #CapCutAmor #trending
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Monday 28 September 2026 16:48:25 GMT
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Finn&Sandy :
Well, then, use discernment if that person need Jesus in their lives
2026-10-12 13:59:47
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Michelle Ruiz :
I had to end a friendship with someone I’ve known over 20 years recently. I knew it was the right choice. I had to be obedient to God. A family member brought it up yesterday and I began to doubt what I knew was the right decision. This friend falls into everyone of these categories. I needed this confirmation and scripture ♥️♥️♥️
2026-09-29 01:04:53
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nichole yeiser :
What if the first ‘The Unrepentant’ is your spouse? What do I do?
2026-09-29 15:59:39
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⚓️☘️💙❌ 𝓑𝓸𝓫𝓫𝓲𝓮&𝓑𝓵𝓮𝓾 :
As you walk remember to pray for them. Just keep your boundary and keep your focus on Him. God will never fail you.
2026-09-29 10:39:08
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LoneWolf :
I don't Agree with #5. we don't know what effect we are having on others, if they keep coming to you, don't deny them, doesn't matter if it's always prayer, or venting, or whatever it be, help them. not everything is built in days,weeks or even months. sometimes you will not ever get to see the effect you had on someone, yet your memories will remain in them as a living testimony. I also wouldn't call it worship, yes where to come to God with alot of things, however scripture also states we are too pray for one another, never cease in praying, don't stop doing what is good, help those who are in need of help, do things with long suffering and patients, etc, etc. that's not worship that's biblical commitment.
2026-10-05 06:06:53
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Little_Jewel :
I was taught that once you’re saved…you cannot loose your salvation…could someone correct that if it’s wrong please?
2026-10-02 15:59:44
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rose :
you just explained all the examples of these public schools oof.
2026-09-29 15:32:45
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Patrice_123 :
I had to fast and pray to stop enable and I'm a overcomer and I can say they will say you hate them because you forgave and choose to walk away [Pray][Pray]
2026-10-02 20:47:30
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Tarot Cards twin flame Reading :
Amen 🙏 I just got finished talking to God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit about a few of my family members that lie gossip and betrayed me once my grandmother passed away the grandmother and grandfather that raised me as their own child and I asked God in Jesus out loud talk to me give me a sign here it is I give you all ways and honor father God, Jesus Christ, Holy Spirit, and Jesus name amen. amen. Amen. You are here with me and my two beautiful daughters. You’ve answered me hallelujah.🙏🙏🙏
2026-10-03 16:39:44
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Rox :
so thats pretty much everyone
2026-10-04 10:14:33
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JANE DOE :
EPHESIANS 6:18
"Fight your battles through prayer, and win your battles through faith. Prayer is the key to Heaven, and faith unlocks the door."
2026-10-05 18:39:11
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Observer :
In today’s society there aren’t many good people out here. Sometimes I feel like staying secluded and away from people. How can you witness to people who are just after all of your good qualities ? I’m hated, mocked, threatened, and constantly trying “not” to be used because of my kind heart !
2026-09-29 14:14:13
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Angela Mitchell :
This is so good! Thanks for sharing🙏🏽
2026-09-29 22:15:16
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🪽♾️COMMANDER♾️🪽 :
I needed to see this one, thank you for putting it out here for us.
2026-10-03 09:06:45
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Angelica Clayton :
when they show u watch their mask only slipped for a second.... but all darkness must come to light and rotten fruit will fall all on its own
2026-10-01 22:34:18
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Erik :
#3. the drama queen is the obvious one, but the subtle quiet. suggestion or Im just making you aware if x y or z or subtly destroying someone’s reputation through prayer or. just am fyi
2026-09-29 03:47:05
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marylovesJesus :
My father is a hard man. He’s 82, completely emotion-less, and absolutely refuses to acknowledge God in any way. Everyone has asked him to come to church and ignores everyone. Is there any hope for him to change his heart?
2026-09-28 23:00:34
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Brechie :
They can get really mad when you set boundaries! When I created distance from a person who had very high (impossible) expecations from me, I was compared to ISIS. 😳 I Was also called a ‘sect’ and ‘false’. I felt hurt and guilt-ridden for a VERY long time. Not so much anymore. Wish I saw this post a lot sooner!
2026-10-02 19:02:09
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Authentically Made :
Amen🙏🏿.
2026-09-29 01:18:41
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𝘦𝘮𝘴.𝘳𝘢𝘸𝘴𝘵𝘶𝘥𝘪𝘰. :
Exodus 14:14
2026-10-04 10:46:03
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shay :
Lord please give me this, I’m always saying yes and never no, but I can never ask for help
2026-09-30 22:53:39
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soul_89 :
Dang 3,4,5 I do bad 🤦🏽♀️
2026-09-29 02:57:18
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Vickydizon75 :
Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-09-28 22:46:07
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apjtreasures :
Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
2026-09-29 13:25:09
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