@theultimategentleman: A man should never let one woman become the reason his entire life falls apart. I’m saying that as a man who did. There was a time when I allowed what was happening in a relationship to affect everything else. My focus. My discipline. My money. My confidence. My direction. I was too attached to whether she wanted me, how she felt about me, and whether the relationship was going to survive. And G, that is not how a man should conduct himself. You can love a woman deeply and still accept when she doesn’t want to be with you. You can be hurt and still handle your responsibilities. You can grieve the relationship without abandoning yourself. Because at some point, you have to understand that her decision is hers. Your life is still yours. If she stays, be the man you’re supposed to be. If she leaves, be the man you’re supposed to be. Either way, you still have to pour into yourself. Your body. Your money. Your mind. Your discipline. Your purpose. Your future. A woman leaving should never mean you leave yourself too. Accept what you cannot control. Then get back to work on the man you can control. 👇 DM “READY” if you’re serious about rebuilding yourself after a breakup, divorce, or separation. I only work with 4 men per month. You must be ready to invest your time, energy, and resources into changing your life. Serious inquiries only. #divorce #breakup #adviceformen

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