@lily.girltea: his followspy makes me insecure #cheater #redflags #toxic

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amandal0lz
amandal0lz :
I get like this when watching intimate scenes in movies or shows. Or when attractive women get nude in movies or shows. Or crude/crass songs. I know I’m insecure but.
2026-09-29 00:52:05
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nikeypooyourmom
Shakira Shakira :
And then he looks at them for longer than needed… yeah all the time 😭
2026-10-29 04:43:05
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borrgerrrrr
a girl who loves borger :
it's not about being insecure but how he makes you feel secure
2026-09-28 21:39:17
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mdurrett22
Michelle S. :
Same girl. But that’s because I have seen him stare at others
2026-09-28 22:55:34
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stellxcx20
stellxcx20 :
I thought It was just me!! It’s ruined my life. Prevented me from even going out just to avoid the awful feelings
2026-09-29 02:39:29
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ehvehhh
Hope🦢 :
No because I just be looking at whoever too yk
2026-10-29 20:16:17
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pac3774
User98765 :
If you are feeling this way honey I promise you he’s not the one that’s all.
2026-10-29 00:16:10
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cookwithstina
Christina | Mom & Psych Grad :
Sammmmme girl
2026-10-30 00:14:45
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lyss_maynard
Allyssa :
Nooooooo babygirl !!! If they can take them, they can have them. What’s meant for you cannot be taken from you 🤍🤍
2026-09-28 20:35:22
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velvet.void74
velvet.void :
Their behavior causes the insecurity is the thing
2026-09-29 00:31:16
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nonashayy
nonashayy :
As a black girl that’s dating a white guy who has a list of exes who were only ever blonde . I get super insecure when we pass anyone who looks like his type
2026-09-29 16:02:38
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angeleyez01
Angeleyez :
It’s just that we want to be the most beautiful woman they see and want to feel like they only have eyes for us. We want to be seen.
2026-09-28 22:37:29
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chellafay
Michelle :
For one, yeah he probably does find them attractive. Two, I find other men attractive. If you’re in a healthy relationship you understand that. You’re committed, not blind. What matters though, is respect. If you’re with someone who doesn’t make you feel secure that’s the issue.
2026-09-29 21:57:51
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chloeberktok
Hbond :
I don’t even enjoy going out in public with him anymore to be honest
2026-09-30 13:36:42
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osobitchyyy
osobitchyyy :
Anyone else also feel invisible/really ugly when they’re out with their partner. Like no one’s gonna look at u anyway.
2026-09-29 14:16:17
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pizzapirate85
Pizza Princess :
The older you get, the more it goes away.
2026-09-29 10:27:57
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its.brookee.b
simplybrooke :
no you are absolutely not the only one! I'm right there with you... and intimate scenes on movies/shows..social media... you name it.. 😓
2026-10-05 18:19:52
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dannip0
user7823231628109 :
With my ex yes. With my husband never ❤️
2026-10-01 17:30:02
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trishr98
Mini_Trish :
I look at the ground or whatever else is around me
2026-09-29 01:26:16
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_.zaydaaaa
Isabel :) :
Does this feeling ever go away?
2026-09-29 04:00:53
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tng18965
Tanya :
I will say sometimes it’s not the current partner. It’s the damage from before. My ex would sexualise women and I have been left so insecure. My fiance never does this but the threat still feels very real for me. I assume he will look and it’s a huge trigger! Takes a patient partner to help heal this.
2026-09-29 19:04:06
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lexikream510
lexikream510 :
You’re not the only one. All these comments make it seem dependent on the man you’re with…. I beg to differ. Once you been hurt, or mind fu*^d, that problematic personal behavior lasts.
2026-09-29 00:13:04
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oneofthe5percent
Chloé 🧚🏼‍♀️ :
This ain’t us you know. It’s them doing it to us..
2026-10-01 02:09:40
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arianamasody
Ari :
i used to with my past partners. with my person right now, no. i used to think it was me but this man makes me feel like the most beautiful person in the room all the time
2026-09-29 00:26:51
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elizabethbriarblo
Ari :
In all honesty, it’s about how pretty he makes you feel
2026-09-29 01:02:03
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