@alexander_widener: Why are we conditioned to rush joy? What happens if we slow down and savor it? … do I need to get off my soap box?

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katyeelizabeth
Kate :
“Joy was not made to be a crumb.” - Mary Oliver
2026-09-28 22:09:38
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sydneyxdemain
sydneyxdemain :
Yes!!! I followed you BECAUSE of your slow, long form content with the apple crisp. It shines through and actually drew me in.
2026-09-28 19:48:28
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kristina_youknowme
Kristina_Youknowme :
That video came across my FYP and my 5year old son and I took a moment to watch it beginning to end. At the end of it my son asked if we could make it together, we were able to get up and share a beautiful slow moment together on a Sunday morning because of you so thank you!
2026-09-28 23:57:49
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stadiumcourt
stadiumcourt :
The destination is the journey
2026-09-28 22:04:59
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zoeysmom22
Zoey :
I totally agree with you. We are so accustomed to rushing thru things.
2026-09-28 21:11:04
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cyborgx8
Sumi :
It was so nostalgic!!! Loved it!!! Happy autumn
2026-09-28 22:11:17
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jenniethejive73
Jennifer Connell :
I loved your video! I don’t recall you asking what everyone thought! Keep being you.❤️
2026-09-28 19:17:49
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gfstarr1
Gabrielle :
imperfection is unique. Imperfection keeps a sign of a person who is continuously evolving and growing. Imperfection is, in my opinion far more special and deep than perfection 😊
2026-10-01 09:37:00
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gzesch
user3944626867351 :
I felt your non-rushed delight with sharing your recipe with us and I got it. Thank you for bringing simplicity and uncomplicated, un-measured sharing back to the airwaves. Your voice soothes the soul and your content is an example of how the simple things in life create a bounty of happiness in one's heart.
2026-09-28 19:16:54
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mersnbrady
Merissa :
Love this message so much ♥️
2026-09-30 01:00:26
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fablesandtea
hannah :
Whatever happened to mindfulness. Bring back the era when mindfulness was a big thing that everyone tapped into. Keep doing you, love. Don’t let the negativity bog you down. 💕
2026-09-29 22:37:08
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jenny.litterinitravel
Jenny Reyell Damiani :
I needed this chat! Thank you for the reminder!
2026-09-30 01:01:45
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joa_herrera1
joa_herrera1 :
Like a poet ✨
2026-09-28 19:16:14
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samoceanwave1
Sam⚓️ :
From your heart with love is the best kind🥰
2026-09-29 23:35:19
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evoked007
Jacqueline Lesik :
I’m gonna make apple crisp tonight with no peeler in sight.
2026-09-28 23:15:43
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caitiecawley
caitie :
it kind of becomes a sort of meditation ❤️taking time to do something by hand (doesn’t have to be using a pairing knife!), it’s a sensory thing. it’s good for you!
2026-09-28 19:43:31
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goldsoulz
Goldsoulz :
Amen, thanks for being here!
2026-09-29 17:29:00
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tppassman
Strawberrywine :
Joy in cooking has no timeline.
2026-09-28 23:32:37
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taylortribiano
Taylor Tribiano :
Omg I literally made this for my family last night on a whim after seeming your video. Slowing down, sipping apple cider and peeling apples on a Sunday evening was exactly what my nervous system needed.
2026-09-28 19:54:34
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slightly_gaga
slightly_gaga :
Today I made a chop veggie salad with a peach and a pear all chopped by hand. So therapeutic. 🥰
2026-09-28 19:36:45
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marg52146
Marg :
I saw your apple crisp video, I understand where you are coming from. Sometimes we are so rushed that we forget to breathe and take in the beauty and see deep details. I feel more inspired when I see deep and beautiful details in my own life🍁
2026-09-28 21:50:06
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jessnorthstar
Jess: North Star Studio :
This is why I hand sew the binding on my quilts! I’m told to use a machine it’s faster but it’s the process.
2026-09-28 22:28:35
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auntiesusie1
susan :
The apples were very good-had one this past weekend 😊 By the way- very lovely cottage. Had a wonderful time in Wiscasset! The Alna Store-10 out of 10! We also feasted on local oysters!
2026-09-28 20:47:48
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sunflowers8104
Misty Messages ❤️🌈 :
You are so 100% exactly right and I just love it
2026-09-29 02:13:09
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aine.rua
Aine ORegan :
1000000%
2026-09-29 15:02:30
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