@dustythunder_: “AITA for going out with my friends on my birthday when my mom had secretly planned a birthday celebration for me?” #storytime #redditstories #redditstory #reddit_tiktok #part1

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heyimmilly_
MillyCoded🦋 :
She had nothing planned she just didn’t want you to have plans
2026-09-28 20:02:25
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jmedoll
Jmedoll :
Textbook case of narcissistic mother, brother is the golden child, and the father is the mother's enabler and doesn't argue with her to "keep the peace."
2026-09-28 20:35:24
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mrs_klc1030
KC 🍁 :
The second she turns 18. girl run!
2026-09-28 19:30:32
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victoriacheyennew
Cheyenne Woods, DO :
Was the cake she threw away even actually for OP, or was it already there for brothers birthday and mom was just mad that OP was going to celebrate her birthday with friends and so mom picked a fight
2026-09-28 19:42:57
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carrot8103
BasketOfKittens🏳️‍🌈🏴‍☠️ :
"she put a lot of effort in" she bought a cake
2026-09-29 04:39:38
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looney_lisa_lu
Lisa :
Brother is the golden child
2026-09-28 20:34:06
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imnotaredheaditsmyname
ImNotARedHeadItsMyName :
Twins are exempt from this statement: I CANNOT STAND PARENTS WHO COMBINED THIER CHILDREN’S BIRTHDAYS!!!They are each special and deserve their own day.
2026-09-28 23:43:21
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daddysgirl1228
Lillie Rowena Ruyle :
I’m a mom of 5 adult kids, 23-27., 3 girls and 2 boys. OP you can come live with us. You will find out how real parents are and be well loved.
2026-10-11 15:43:47
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darkcirclesdarkhumor
Beelzebeth :
NTA, the toxicity in this family is exhausting
2026-09-28 19:28:36
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dawn1965_genx
dawn1965_GenX :
It wasn’t her birthday cake, it was her brothers on her birthday
2026-09-28 19:53:39
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anyacres
Anybeth and the pack :
I am 37. I loathe all pies or anything with cooked fruit. my stepmother makes some sort of pie every year and then makes a big spectacle about me not eating it and her forgetting. she has been in my life 32 years
2026-09-29 00:43:03
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kimberse1
Kim :
Omg. The mom is awful
2026-09-28 19:28:23
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idahogirl8888
idahogirl8888 :
I assumed that they celebrated on the brother’s birthday because it was first, but hers was before his! That’s so bizarre.
2026-09-28 19:51:38
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pomeraniac
Pomeraniac :
Soooo much to unpack on this one but Mom and Dad are total AHs!!! The brother isn’t far behind.
2026-09-28 19:31:45
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angeleys151
Jenn💜🤍🩶🖤 :
and the number of times OP offered to stay! even when mom gets her way she's mad about it cause it wasn't on her terms
2026-10-11 12:02:17
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kristiebord
WNY-GenX-Bish :
And when OP goes no contact “out of the blue,” mom will be the victim. 🙄
2026-09-28 19:35:16
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breetheshewolf
Briana LadyWolf Knight :
Sister is 17 & brother is 15... so I can almost guarantee that since the age of 2, this is all she's ever known unfortunately. So to her, this is normal. Poor girl. 🥺💔
2026-09-28 20:24:24
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tammyhorn749
RES Family Farm :
And the parents and bro will be shocked when OP moves out and goes no contact
2026-09-28 22:14:35
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marion_anderson1
marion_anderson1 :
don't apologize, it's mom's fault she didn't tell you in advance to not make plans. mom is trying to make you feel guilty for her failure
2026-09-29 11:22:55
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cathymadden189
cathymadden189 :
She bought his favorite because she doesn’t know what op’s favorite cake is..
2026-09-29 02:07:25
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laurnil1
Laurnil :
why do mothers hate their daughters? a question to which i wish i knew the answer.
2026-09-29 18:41:12
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thehunkedoryway
Aly Hunke :
If it was a surprise party….then her friends should have been invited and known….so I agree that she probably didn’t have any real plans for her besides giving a cake and a gift for once….which could happen whenever too. Mom and dad are AH. I get that moms have a closer bond w their sons, and dads closer w daughters, but what she’s doing is terrible and dad isn’t stepping up at all.
2026-09-28 19:50:23
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tjhill284
🐶TJ🦆 :
My kids are 7 days apart. We never celebrate their birthdays together. We may do a combined thing like a family trip for their birthday but they each get cake and presents on their actual birthday. Their favorite cake. I even change the birthday banners so they feel special.
2026-09-30 16:31:38
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miss.delulu10
miss delulu 🇳🇿 :
My mum did this growing up, and even as an adult would get me a cake i didnt like, & wonders why I stopped celebrating with her. She too prefers my brother over me & honestly the pain doesn't really go away.
2026-09-28 19:47:01
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ibreakthealgorithm
B :
You can't convince me that mother doesn't hate her daughter. I'm so sorry, OP. 😥
2026-09-28 21:39:29
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