@blairguinntherapy: A real apology isn’t about proving you had good intentions. It’s about making space for the impact your actions had on your partner. Listen, take responsibility, validate their feelings, and focus on repairing the hurt instead of defending yourself. #relationships #dating #psychologyfacts #fyp #therapytiktok

michaeica🧸 :

how to forget about the day your partner hurt you or they said something that you can't forget about? I'm having a hard time dealing with things like this

Cassio.bean :

im neurodivergent and i do take accountability apologize and say im gonna do better but it feels also so important to explain how my side was and what my intents were, my partner feels like its 3xcusing my behaviour when i know and acknowledge it and have no excuse for it i just need complete clarity from both side so i give mine and my intents. he feels minimized when i do that and i dont wanna make him feel like that

Diana B :

What if my partner works 2 jobs and he comes see me withiut sleep and he is cranky and he tends to say mean things when he is tired. He always apologizes, but its becoming a weekly thing and it hurts.

taythigpen :

You can have a podcast

error.elo.404 :

lwk need a podcast on spotify abt this

lisaneuel :

What if I am autistic and can’t handle being asked these simple questions? Like, it’s too much and I did communicate that. Still get asked these same questions 🫩

youssefjsaad :

A little fkn late Blair…but thank you 🫡

♡ :

can you talk about the window of tolerance and creating a system for it?

Amidu Musa :

this message is very educative

flashy squirtle :

but why is it always just a question when I've answered the question before. I have to fix everything. I have to do everything. but I'm still wrong how does that make sense?

Only me :

Amazing

saintparodyy :

Shame / guilt, but what if I also feel unheard?

Kendra44 :

Thanks

Steven W :

great information..however, if you're with someone who emotionally immature you be spinning your wheels

JB :

I know this sounds cheesy, but I can’t afford therapy right now and your videos are such a life vest for me to continue to be better. Not even necessarily in my romantic relationships, but in all my relationships

widniechi :

This is a good take

Amidu Musa :

fact

Tik Toker :

I just wanna say I really appreciate you posting these videos. I never had a father figure. So sometimes it’s hard to gauge how I should interact with My Fiancé and what feelings are OK you know thank you.

@Hon.Leteipa Mesh :

Exactly Mehn

Huni874 :

I'm the emotional regulated side girl why am I in therapy 🤨😎😏

MarkyMarkyMark :

lol bro talking like that will result in my wife laughing in my face.

user783742643 :

HIS FYP

Huni874 :

I can't pronounce that word 😔

May :

surfer_00 :

@Ames I need to work on this