@meshay.renee: Black men are hard to love if they are NOT where they want to be in life 🤷🏽♀️✨ now I have to pay because you feel left behind #datingstruggles #datingforwomen #datingtips
They will try to humble you!! Because they aren’t where they wanna be 💯
2026-09-29 19:45:13
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diყყαɧ❤︎ :
when me and my ex broke up he got a new gf the next day. when we spoke months later and he said he’s happier because “she’s okay with being my punching bag”
2026-09-29 23:18:41
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Nhandi :
Even if they are where they want to be.. if they see how easily things come to you with little to half the hard work they had to put in.. omg.. they will hate youuu
2026-09-29 18:46:21
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Capri D’Von :
This is the one!!! They’re SO mean when they feel behind
2026-09-30 00:09:09
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I'm Lexi💋👋🏾 :
I just chose to be alone. they're very difficult
2026-09-29 02:46:32
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Cocobutter :
You know how many black men flaunt money in my face. Literally STACKS BRICKS OF MONEY. And they don’t want to hand not one single dollar. 😭 It ain’t even about them being on a good financial level.
2026-09-29 23:46:05
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Velvet Viper 🖤 :
LISTEN baby I'm recovering from a man that wasn't up to par NEVER again
2026-09-29 02:21:17
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leahrose :
yesssssss they hate their current life and just take it out on the girl
2026-09-29 05:27:13
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My life, my life, my life 🧚🏽 :
He’s at war with HIMSELF!
2026-09-30 20:32:26
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reeareads :
This is gospel. You’re right. It doesn’t matter how much we pour into them if they’re not whole.
2026-09-29 00:52:12
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Brittwithin :
Agreed and when they can't meet standards then they start belittling you for having them.
2026-09-30 02:46:11
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miamor_xo :
All the way facts! For men in general…if they aren’t happy, stable and secure within themselves it will never work.
2026-09-29 14:29:38
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LAYLA :
I love that this is a trending topic rn😩😭 this is so relevant
2026-09-29 17:22:38
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MyLuv :
I had a whole panel of black men tell me that I need to lower my standards and let go of my high self esteem as a young successful woman in order to get a man. I WOULD RATHER DIE ALONE THAN TO DO THAT 😂😭
2026-10-01 00:37:21
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Els :
Unfortunately when you meet a man in this stage you have to leave him and let him get where he wants to be on his own. You literally cannot intervene. It’s a canon event.
2026-09-30 00:55:26
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Kay Gabrielle :
They refuse be honest with themselves about it. Like just admit you’re not ready, save everyone a headache
2026-09-29 19:09:58
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𝒯𝒽𝑒 𝒫𝓇𝒾𝓃𝒸𝑒𝓈𝓈 🎀 :
The last black man I dated was very successful (7 figure man). However, he didn’t like that I was used to having nice things (suburban black girl here) and dated men with money. He wanted to brag about having money, cars, property and I wasn’t impressed. We didn’t work because I refuse to chase him because he told me he was use to the woman taking the lead instead of him 😂 girl even if they are successful they can still be LOSERS!
2026-09-30 01:17:18
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Dona Diamond 💎 :
I was gonna say ohh so you mean most 😳😳😳
2026-09-28 20:40:51
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Urethra Franklin :
Yup! and instead of not dating until they have accomplished all of those things because they are overly freaky they drag you into it with no intention on healing from any of it. Its generational and repetitive actually.
2026-09-30 01:52:23
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Courtney 💗 :
My ex told me “you’re ready right now, I’m not” after a year of breadcrumbing me and lies.
2026-09-30 02:59:34
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Luckyliz :
Yep. Quite literally about to divorce one.
2026-09-29 01:25:45
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Clover_clementine :
I learned a long time ago that if a man doesn’t like himself he will resent you for liking him when he dont even like him and he will wreak havoc on your life. If you see that a man does not like himself, girl just run he will never be able to like you and he will punish you for liking him.
2026-09-29 19:41:23
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evolvingdrea :
This was said perfectly!!
2026-09-29 21:53:56
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Angel Doe :
Ouuu sista they gonna say you bashing them because your cooking
2026-09-30 03:17:56
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Ianicole :
you ain’t told nothin but the truth girl !!
2026-09-29 12:54:11
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