@calmthecrazy_: Some people learn the word boundaries and immediately turn it into a getaway car. They lie, and when someone asks for the truth, suddenly they “won’t tolerate being interrogated.” They hurt someone, and when that person wants to talk about it, suddenly they’re “protecting their peace.” And somehow, every conversation about what they did becomes a conversation about the other person’s tone, timing, or feelings. A real boundary might sound like, “I’m too upset to talk right now. Can we come back to this tomorrow?” But tomorrow has to actually come. They’re allowed to set a boundary around how the conversation happens. They don’t get to set a boundary around whether their actions ever get discussed. Because when “respect my boundaries” always means “stop holding me accountable,” that’s not a boundary. That’s avoidance with a therapy vocabulary. #narcissist #avoidant #MentalHealth #boundaries #boundariesarehealthy

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