the first one bothers me sm and i feel childish to bring itup 😭
2026-09-30 00:12:50
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𝒥𝒶𝓎 :
1. a text takes 2 seconds
2026-09-29 23:03:40
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Kiersten McKenna :
girl on month three of my long-distance relationship and we’re hitting that three month rough patch any and all advice would be so helpful lol
2026-09-29 03:28:08
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💖 :
honestly i get where these comments are coming from but if they can always pick up their friends calls who they’re irl with they can pick up yours/if they can always call their irl friends they can always call you. If they’re always on the game they can always text you etc idec
2026-09-30 04:54:54
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Notreallyhere :
first one would have lost me
.... y'all need to learn when to run away
2026-09-30 01:40:51
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MischievousFox :
I will say (and I promise its coming from a good place), needing constant reassurance & constantly checking for responses is not a healthy thing. Shows too much dependence on the other person to be happy.
Both parties should be able to be independant and have things outside of their relationship. (Work, hobbies, school, etc)
Make sure relationship expectations are clear with each other; DON'T ASSUME. Communication is even more crucial in long distance relationships. Also keep in mind everyone's love language is different How someone GIVES love and how they enjoy RECEIVING love.
2026-09-29 22:15:39
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truthy :
ngl this advice ahh
2026-10-02 12:54:33
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Lovergirl Tater 💛 :
Kudos because I’m overly sensitive
2026-10-02 11:10:53
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SaeedaOfADown 🧟♀️ :
maybe I'm immature
2026-09-30 11:40:41
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parker🌟 :
on my second year of long distance and this year is international. some things I find really helpful are 1) not texting all day so when you talk on the phone it feels like you actually have something to say and the conversation is able to flow. and 2) sending voice memos! sometimes texting can feel a little stale and hard to understand tone so voice memos can help you feel closer
2026-09-30 03:54:33
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Katie :
My ex was bad at all of these long distance no matter how much patience I had bringing it up calmly. Now my current bf calls me first multiple times a day and texts me throughout the day🥰. We FaceTime at night to watch shows together.
2026-10-02 04:25:05
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sophie 21 :
Sounds like communication addiction
2026-10-01 23:11:36
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Sidi🤹🏾♀️💕 :
That first one bro.😭
2026-09-30 11:51:07
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audreyyy <3 :
omg the first one.
2026-09-29 23:23:29
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Alli :
the first ones kinda crazy bc mines always on the game and he still texts me back. it might take like 10-30 mins but he does it.
2026-10-01 18:27:30
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kylielindquist :
Dated 3 years not long distance and now we are almost 2 years into long distance, 6000 miles away….it does not get easier yall.
2026-09-29 23:04:48
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gabyvmsdiaries :
Wow this is so helpful, not even 2 months and it’s already getting to me 🥲
2026-09-29 23:27:20
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MischievousFox :
As someone going into month 9 of long distance, we had a really tough conversation after our 3rd trip this year.
We made adjustments to be more intentional with work on ourselves (as we both put ourselves on the back burner and redirected focus to the relationship).
We originally committed to monthly check ins to see how the other person is handling the distance. This upcoming month will be our first revived check in consisting of: What work have we put towards ourselves? Are we staying on path with our personal goals? Do we feel like the other person is staying accountable with their own work? What do we need from each other at this time? And more like that.
Communication is consistent with us and we have dedicated time to each other, and our kids.
2026-09-29 22:10:43
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Ambar❤️🇺🇸 :
Holy timing I needed this thank you ☺️
2026-09-30 01:09:18
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👩🏾🦯➡️ :
i’m ngl these things actually worked for me… it makes it easier and takes away the over thinking. once you trust them, you know they’re just living their life and your just a part as they are a part of yours you can finally breath. I can be busy and say it and so can she and we talk when we can, ofc I miss her but yk life happens and love is here regardless. Plus also just having a life outside of them is great to for these things not just as a distraction but as understanding there not the only valuable part of your life. and once u establish ur own life its not crazy that they have one too. That’s what I would say about it but all relationships are different so do what works for you.
2026-10-02 14:42:21
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Spider-Man :
Arguments are needed 😭 that’s how we see if they’ll fix it or not but I’m not writing paragraphs I’m saying one sentence and leaving distance for it to speak for itself after I left a sentence of a cry for help for them. I won’t do it a second time.
2026-09-30 10:43:03
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Alondra :) :
As someone in a relationship for 5 years 4 being long distance, it does get easier. It’s still hard and it sucks but we grow into routines and it becomes into something we don’t even think about too hard anymore
2026-09-30 08:16:01
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kale :
Idk…I have a history of ldr and it will always bother me if they’re online and can’t text me. Maybe I need to set some boundaries within myself but I text my bf whenever I have the chance to, especially w us being long distance.
2026-09-30 14:27:03
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sayonees :
I been with my long distance bf for over 4 years there’s never a time that we aren’t on call when free and just hanging around. Idk if this man is that into it
2026-09-30 06:48:04
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Janielle :
could help someone lol
2026-09-30 20:03:33
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