@twohottakes: Me (25F) with my boyfriend (26M) of six months. I’m about to break up with him over a backpack but I need to know if I’m overreacting AND we get a 10 YEAR UPDATE 😭 #reddit #relationships #wtf
The update: she didn’t break up with him. But she told everyone what he had done and everyone was mad at him for it. Her friends apologized for taking his side but the friendships weren’t the same after that. She did end up getting all the patches back and everyone that took them were super apologetic and yelled at the bf. The bf never really apologized and just wanted her to stop being mad and telling people. They aren’t together anymore thankfully
2026-09-29 00:32:50
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coffeeplease :
Dump the friends too 👌
2026-09-28 23:58:27
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Ash Brooke :
Boyfriend or not, who offers to give away someone else’s stuff without their permission??? How did he think he had the right to do that with anyone? That’s psycho behavior.
2026-09-29 02:16:37
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Juliette Sophia :
hell no id be so pissed.....and sad
2026-10-20 00:07:46
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A_Bookish_Breeze :
Get your patches back, then dump him and the friends who told you you’re overreacting. You’re not breaking up over a backpack. You’re breaking up over his lack of respect for you.
2026-09-29 00:43:51
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Jaimelyn :
They weren’t his to give!!! Coming from someone who has lost their dad, this is NOT ok!!!!!
2026-10-19 23:09:06
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Lara :
Break up immediately
2026-10-19 20:39:01
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cimorene :
I would have broken up with him on the spot
2026-10-20 16:11:30
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Jane Doe :
Update 10 years later, she broke up with him and she told everyone in their friend groups and what not what he did the people who took his side apologized and most of them gave the patches back, but a few of them she had to go to the door with another friend and look at them dead in their eyes saying my dead father gave me those when I was 14 and that did the trick she got all the patches back and then about a year later she ended up finding one of her father’s her grandfather’s old backpacks in the attic, and started that as a new base and she still has both to this day and she continuously adds patches to it
2026-09-29 05:18:41
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Jenni :
tell him you're going to dump them if he doesn't get them back immediately. then dump him when you get them all back.
2026-09-29 00:24:16
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Manda :
His guitar? His favorite vinyl? His teddy bear? Oh.. you like that? oh.. you can just have it!
2026-09-29 04:21:05
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Becky :
He doesn't respect her or her belongings.
2026-09-29 12:53:44
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Brii :
Why would he just fucking let someone do that???? I am sooooo baffled
2026-09-29 00:09:27
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Lest_294 :
Oh absolutely not. Dump him and get ALL the patches back.
2026-09-29 00:58:39
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Lilyyyyyy :
Not an over reaction. Break up and RUN far away from that man. Immediately
2026-09-29 00:53:22
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We are not alone :
I started out thinking that she would be overreacting and very quickly learned she’s not
2026-09-29 01:07:26
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user7659784951723 :
This is definitely NOT an overreaction! Jacob is a jerk and he doesn’t deserve you.
2026-10-04 17:33:10
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SarahBethCarter :
nope. break up immediately. why is he inviting people over to your place after you're asleep? and why is he giving permission to take your stuff?? not okay. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
2026-09-29 04:25:53
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❤️CB❤️ :
He told her she was not more important than his friends with his hesitation. THAT was your cue to exit the relationship, sister.
2026-09-29 19:18:26
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ItzRixBish<3 :
Even if they were all just patches that you bought from the store yourself and there was nothing special about them.The fact still remains that he let them steal patches off of your backpack , like that entire thing is messed
2026-09-29 19:52:13
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LisaGMDHomes :
This isn't about the patches...it's about the disrespect.
2026-09-29 13:29:00
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gracie 💫 :
make him get you ALL the patches back, break up with him, & dump the friends who said you were overreacting 🥰
2026-09-29 05:36:34
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Kait | CLE :
No I would leave him
2026-09-28 23:52:28
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Tinyhands :
Taylor and I said “he doesn’t have dead parents” at the same time.
2026-09-29 00:06:32
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Pearls Rivera Ruiz :
I need the update!!!
2026-09-28 23:54:53
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