@growwithkaela: When you are missing your dismissive avoidant and comparing your connection with others to your connection with them, just remember that you’re holding onto a version of them that they couldn’t sustain consistently.

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nataliesds
nataliesds :
These videos have been very eye-opening for me. My DA husband and I have decided to divorce after almost 7 years. I’ve recognized so much of what you’ve described in my marriage and I’m saddened I didn’t see this sooner. But it makes so much sense.
2026-10-01 04:18:55
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spunbrearing05
FruitFliesLikeAnAirplane :
Also, "You deserve better."
2026-09-29 01:20:42
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jessicaameade
Jess | Wedding Photographer :
I know this logically but it still hurts so deeply to miss him this much.
2026-09-29 01:24:05
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maxshadow595
maxshadow595 ❌️ :
then why did they bother?
2026-09-29 03:16:38
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applegem7
User16789046700000 :
They are psychooooooos
2026-09-29 02:01:14
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arykenzy
ary :
but why did they act like that in the beginning if it wasn’t their true selves? so none of it was real?
2026-09-29 05:06:29
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frau_ruckt
frau_ruckt :
It’s like a GD script
2026-09-29 01:33:22
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underwaterkey
underwaterkey :
Why can’t they maintain how they were? It’s so bizarre
2026-09-30 03:54:00
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moonshinerocket
Moonshinerocket :
Her exact words: "I'm sorry I can't be what you need right now." 😒
2026-09-29 23:33:00
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captaincavegirrrl
Captaincavegirrrl :
I’m the same convo he told me after the breakup he started dating someone new. He told me he doesn’t have the capacity for me. Apparently he has it for her. 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-09-29 02:13:17
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___heymonica
Monica :
Why did he go to the effort in the first place? I don’t understand. Was I just a shiny object to him?
2026-09-30 23:04:28
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imabadbeach91
sarah_belle91 :
this is my favorite of his: "I self-sabotaged because I thought you were too good for me" after I caught him emotionally cheating 🙄
2026-09-29 11:02:50
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mitchellsullivan1
Mitchell Sullivan :
“I don’t deserve you”
2026-09-29 05:48:05
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doggy.bottom
doggybottompatter🐕 :
I remember when we were dating he said “you are taking care of so many people and no one is taking care of you”. Somehow I thought he meant that he would take care of me? Nah. He was just making an observation. He saw me as someone who would take care of him without asking for anything in return.
2026-09-29 19:26:05
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kristintrippin
Kristin faith :
hurt so bad tho
2026-09-29 01:50:00
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dw.in.the.sip
Dw.in.the.’Sip :
Checks out. It’s like you wrote the speech.
2026-09-29 00:59:50
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user84364989
Rob S :
She used to say EXACTLY this. It's spooky, like they're all reading from the same crib sheet.
2026-09-29 09:32:32
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experimental_cin
experimental_cin :
Verbatim.
2026-09-29 00:59:33
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theshannonrosediaries
TheShannonRoseDiaries :
But he was perfect for 21 months and woke up one day and said they might not be able to factor me and my sons into his future should he potentially need to change jobs…he asked for a week to think things over it’s been 6 days with no contact from him 😭
2026-09-30 23:11:35
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ratpoison8
Glen Lotz :
then why they go for someone else?
2026-09-29 12:04:10
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katcal_
katcal_ :
So what do you do?
2026-09-30 00:24:04
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sbrantn13
Seth :
She said what we had wasn’t sustainable.
2026-09-29 22:20:08
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ashleydawn94
Ashley Dawn :
Daggerrrr to the heart here
2026-09-29 03:28:16
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dizzle_314
Dizzle Unfiltered :
Could have held my hand first 😅
2026-09-29 04:00:49
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