Dr. Nicole LePera
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Turbo Mitzvah :
as an avoidant I just don't have relationships 😂
2026-09-29 16:42:06
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Colleen in KC :
Is this why avoidant people tend to thrive more in long distance relationships? Because they control how often they see you?
2026-09-29 02:19:25
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🪼 Anna Banana 🪐 :
I hate being like this. I promise I’m not evil 😭
2026-09-29 18:11:50
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Daniie🔻🇵🇸 :
as an avoidant. if you wanna marry someone, i recommend you marry another avoidant. i did and im the happiest ever. there’s not much difference than how i felt single because i am freeeeee and relaxed all the time. no annoying emotional bs. no whining. no complaining about attention. no clinging. i truly did not know i could have a relationship that made me feel so happy and fulfilled vs annoyed and bored. he’s my best friend, and life is great.
2026-09-30 17:38:20
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sunshinelillies :
everytime I get in a relationship it feels like a chore more than it feels exciting I love to be free 🥰
2026-09-30 05:11:37
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PanaRicanQueen :
Is this supposed to be negative? Because I’ve never felt more accurately and beautifully represented. 🫶🏼😆
2026-11-08 08:25:07
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user583138003821 :
being alone means we can be the most regulated. I constantly dysregulated around others. it is exhausting.
2026-09-29 16:07:25
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Dr. Melanie - Psychologist :
As a psychologist, I think it’s worth remembering that we can’t know everything someone feels from an attachment label. There’s room for “I care about you, and closeness is hard for me” to be true. There’s also room for “I care about you, and this distance hurts me.” Understanding each other matters, but neither person should have to do all the guessing. Even “I’m having trouble putting this into words” gives a partner more to work with than silence🤍
2026-09-29 04:24:20
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Aquarius :
Avoidants should only be with other avoidants. And each attachment style should only be with their match also. Because otherwise, it’s going to be chaos.
2026-11-07 16:41:32
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mhysablackfyre :
Why do they do things for their friends without issue, though?
2026-09-29 02:28:25
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gigi7426.1 :
This is me, I hate feeling forced to things.
2026-09-29 23:23:53
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Shannon Newell Martin :
If you push me, I will just stop all communication. I dread a golden retriever style boyfriend.
2026-09-30 22:21:42
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Jeremiah :
I usually have panic attacks replying to texts that are more emotionally consuming. I still care about the person. But the anxiety is so overwhelming that I’d rather wait days before answering.
2026-09-29 14:16:33
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Sheri K Stella :
I did this with an avoidant for 5 yrs. He's literally a 15 yr old boy in a man's body. If they won't do the the work to heal from their trauma, they'll never change. It's simply not normal & you cannot have a healthy relationship with them.
2026-10-09 05:37:39
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Debsfun :
Great information. Thanks
2026-11-07 09:25:53
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Suz :
It’s me. Wahwah.
2026-09-29 00:38:53
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kelly :
You read me to filth. My partner definitely feels neglected. 😭
2026-09-29 13:27:21
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:3 :
Where the avoidants at let’s date and leave each other alone 😭
2026-10-01 20:48:31
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OneHouseBerry2 :
i just don’t get involved because relationships are work and I don't like that job
2026-09-30 12:23:47
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CoachLuisEnrique :
If you don’t wanna date avoidants, become secure and you won’t attracted to them 💯
2026-09-29 15:41:30
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Vennie Kocsis :
I’m so damn avoidant. Eh! I hate obligation. It makes me feel burdened. I’m a cult survivor. I need to free flow.
2026-09-29 04:41:59
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JosieTy777 :
TikTok diagnosing my ass again.
2026-09-30 17:45:24
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lesbian yapper :
I’m avoidant bc I had an over bearing controlling father who didn’t allow me an my sister to do shi , an was entitled , so whenever I get someone who even gives their gonna be overbearing they getting dropped , bc some people are suffocating an we live in a world that coddles anxious people , an demonizes avoidant’s as if both aren’t healthy & people act as if avoidants don’t have their own traumas either , that’s what annoys me about the comments under these videos .
2026-09-29 14:01:05
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sfenton001 :
dread and trapped..story of my life. it is curse of the damned
2026-09-29 05:50:25
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myopinion605 :
And when triggered, they prefer to discard you completely rather than consider that they might be part if the problem 🙄
2026-09-29 13:17:20
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