calmconfidencepodcast
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999 :
i seriously have an inferiority complex and it’s so embarrassing.
2026-09-30 02:07:06
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Kat :
yup. I feel more comfortable around ppl I feel are on my level or lower, and anxious around ppl I feel r better than me. I hate the judgemental thinking, Im judgemental towards myself so im judgemental towards others in the same way😔.
2026-09-29 02:42:12
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El :
i looked at happy confident people as Gods .. like how are they so comfortable being around people & happy all the time .. i could never understand it
2026-09-29 04:14:58
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brittanybxll :
It’s like unconscious social ranking
2026-09-29 14:50:23
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redddss09 :
Why am I more comfortable with strangers, I’m so confident, then when I talk to the people closest to me in my life or a love interest, I go blank. I stutter. I feel inadequate.
2026-09-29 04:13:43
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ᵉᵛᵉʳʸᵗⁱᵐᵉ :
i just caught this in myself a couple days ago and really processed it then this video shows up wtff this happens all the time
2026-09-29 02:21:40
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DENINE CAMPBELL715 :
Been coming to this realization recently and it’s SCARY
2026-09-29 18:00:25
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angela :
ugh why am i cursed this way, why am i lowkey elitist like this?? why cant i js be normal and be regular and not rank people like this
2026-09-29 17:34:26
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prncess_car0lyn :
“It’s just as narrcicistic to think everyone hates you as it is to think everyone loves you” that’s at least what I tell myself and it’s helped me get out of that mindset. Now when I look at strangers, I don’t really think anything at all. Just go about whatever I’m doing or thinking ab in my head.
2026-09-30 16:29:21
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Yaakoub :
sadly relatable, god damnit
2026-09-29 01:12:12
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xxsn :
For me I feel comfortable around people who have good kind energy regardless of their communication skills I’m looking for a good soul that won’t judge harshly
2026-09-29 12:10:25
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easyryder7 :
I noticed this about myself a long time ago.
2026-09-29 09:04:01
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🍓🇨🇴 :
Fuck it’s so true. I can’t help but feel down on myself for being so judgemental!! I want empathy but I judge too
2026-09-29 02:36:47
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ErenTardsLeftNut :
Respect you a lot gng
2026-09-29 01:03:34
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qwertyasdf508 :
how do i stop doing this
2026-10-01 04:06:06
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Shannoona | Artist :
I never see anyone talking about this but it’s so real. I noticed this when people say things to me like ‘I thought you didn’t like me’.. or something along those lines. They’re the ones judging me, not the other way around 😂 in my mind I’m thinking there’s no issue lol
2026-09-30 11:03:29
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Userrrtrue888 :
And you wouldn’t understand where this judgement and self-hatred was coming from.
2026-09-30 18:18:57
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Adele🫧 :
You just opened my third eye
2026-09-30 14:30:28
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scoodledoodles :
Yess true i always wondered why some people didn’t like me when i was only the “quiet kid” turns out people notice how judgmental i was just sitting there judging everyone for trying etc 😂
2026-09-29 10:25:08
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Ari Price :
I do in fact struggle with this. Working on it but I get big feelings 😭
2026-09-29 16:18:11
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bibilo :
I'm pretty sure it's deeper and more complicated than that
2026-09-30 16:56:42
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BaddyAddy :
I think I actually judge people who I recognize are above me on the social hierarchy ladder more, but in a way where I think they will automatically judge me as lesser. people on the same rung of the ladder I'm like hell yeah, let's party, we can vibe and like each other for who we are, no walls. but if I think someone has more friends than me, is more socially capable, I assume they will not want to be around me once they figure out how odd I am. bc Ive kind of found that to be true. I'll get invited to do things once or twice with cool women, but then they will drop me. but it's a vicious cycle, I'm sure I'm coming across as boring and stilted bc I'm so afraid of their judgement.
2026-09-29 23:11:20
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kot_begemotbk :
isnt that just how society is set up by the popular people?
2026-09-29 13:33:42
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boom.7002 :
I realise that I’m comfortable around ppl that I know from childhood or middle school because everyone was awkward at that time so remembering that part of them makes me feel comfortable because I don’t care if they judge me I’ll judge them too
2026-09-30 00:52:18
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Sara Dale :
omg you know what, I think I was experiencing this but maybe in a slightly different way. I always struggled with the concept of pretty privilege - the idea that attractive people are perceived as nicer, more capable, and that others treat them better etc. It's because in my mind whenever I encountered someone attractive (or someone better looking than me) I always was really anxious and uncomfortable around them. I imagined that they would be really judgemental, whereas when I encountered someone "on my level" I was way more comfortable.
2026-09-29 13:19:17
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