Honestly just gotta distant yourself from him, you obsessing over him is only gonna make it worse, my bf of almost 4 years left me, it hurt a lot but I respected his choice and I was low for a while but you just gotta pick yourself back up and focus on the stuff you wanna do or love, make yourself excited for something you’ve signed up for or are in line for
2026-09-29 20:05:28
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monika :
i make myself hate them and only think of the bad things they did
2026-09-29 03:42:48
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sifa :
I was in the same situation last year. knew them for over 7 years. I started drinking heavily weekly and other crazy stuff. I literally went crazy and tried to kms. what truly worked permanently was every time I was thinking about him I shared what I was thinking and feeling with Jesus (every single time, as often as possible) not always in a form of prayer just like speaking to a therapist. and even though I still remember everything, I found a genuine sense of peace and closure one day out of nowhere. its unexplainable. Try it just once and see what happens
2026-09-29 15:37:02
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mel :
delete everything that reminds u of him or u guys took together block him everywhere delete ur chats delete everything
2026-09-29 15:32:01
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𝒥 :
you dont, you’re gonna keep thinking of that person for a long time until you dont anymore, and when that finally happens you’ll probably never be the same
2026-09-29 06:10:11
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My schizophrenic Rants :
In the beginning you wont be able to. But after awhile you start to think abt it logically. And you realize that the relationship ended bc ur wants and reality didnt match anymore. You start to accept reality. Sometimes you might think abt it and say I was really happy back then. But reality is where you will always be. Its not about getting over it. Its abt accepting what reality is. And reality is you guys werent meant to be together. Eventually you will be with someone who can make you a part of there reality.
2026-09-29 12:46:36
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mعz :
remind yourself that whatever he’s done is a reflection of himself and not you. and what ur feeling is a reflection of you because you are a good person who sincerely loves. It takes time but eventually you’ll heal and you’ll be glad it ended when it did, and not later.
2026-09-29 18:44:08
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🕷️ :
disregard anyone’s advice to heal the “right” way. go out more, stay in more, don’t push away ur friends and be as annoying as u need venting about him. take any way possible to move on, the main goal is to protect ur mental health, even if it means rebounding.
2026-09-29 04:12:56
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🌷 :
sometimes I thought about the hurtful things he said to me, but honestly I still love him so much that even that is not enough to forget about him, it’s been 8 months it’s nothing i guess, but not even with therapy, not even crying my heart out, nothing makes this pain go away :( sometimes to make it better I just think that it was probably better for him, the only thing I wanted was for him to be happy and honestly he looks way happier now, maybe the only thing it can make the heart feel a lil better is to think the good things they teached you or the good moments 😓😓
2026-10-03 04:48:37
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@1stopjuggin :
block delete everything of them and focus on urself stop thinking so much about what u shared and think about a future be who u want to be and move on be better wish u the best
2026-09-30 00:18:34
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khin :
u really never get over it, u just need to learn with it
2026-09-30 02:19:14
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leah 🪽 :
So you just
2026-09-29 23:13:03
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Hue Lie ⊹ ࣪ ˖ ໒꒱ :
everything will get better soon na, don’t rush getting over it and take things slowly. emotions can be overwhelming, but if you can’t overcome it time will overcome it for you. you can cry and feel for him, but you must get up and be better afterwards 🍀 that’s the only way I’ve been trying to move on from my first love
2026-09-30 03:56:50
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🪽 :
Js take your time it’s ok
2026-09-29 16:52:10
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i beg your P? :
the bad new is you don’t move on. you just have to accept and live with it until you’re used to it. if you respect and love yourself enough, you will get through it. That’s the price we pay for loving.
2026-09-30 06:24:49
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﮼سارة :
i pretend he’s dead.
2026-09-29 03:32:42
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e.klab :
Find another one
2026-09-30 06:48:22
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Shiloh :
The issue is you don’t love yourself, take time for yourself and do things for yourself, start a routine and spend time with friends
2026-09-29 15:22:05
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zooweemama396 :
You will once u realize it was all ur love that made him special and apart from that he’s just ordinary person like any other boy
2026-09-29 09:54:46
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diana :
u live the life you had before him
2026-09-29 23:31:58
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sieglinde :
You would sometimes think of the good memories, but also don’t forget what it lead to this moment that you want to move on so bad from him. The past will always be past, never look back because the version of them that you loved doesn’t exist anymore. Make sure the love you think you still have for him will redirect to yourself, and lastly let yourself feel all the emotions at once. You’ll get through it, Ive been there❤️🩹
2026-10-01 01:51:21
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𝓢. ꨄ :
Let yourself feel the pain don’t remember the good times and you’ll eventually get over it
2026-10-05 16:39:23
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cx :
🫶
2026-09-30 01:38:43
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