@jackolopeandhuckleberry: Once I accepted that my parents didn’t need to know anything about me my life got easier. Over the years I have got to a place where I’m really proud of the very very limited information that I let my mom know about me the less she knew about me the less she could use against me if she knew nothing about me then she had no option other than just to leave me alone. My mom made everything as miserable as possible. A good time was not to be had anywhere near her ever. If she couldn’t be happy, no one would be happy. I know people don’t understand going no or low contact with family, but it really was a huge relief to not have her in my life. #narcissist #mom #family #wedding #storytime

jackolopeandhuckleberry
jackolopeandhuckleberry
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Tuesday 29 September 2026 02:34:47 GMT
2883
263
29
4

Music

Download

Comments

mandaridesunicorns
Manda 🐼 :
My mom is exactly like that. Any holidays or birthdays or anything, she just would throw a fit like a toddler. Why is that, is it a personality disorder? Mine has never met my almost 8 year old. My kid has special needs, and I can’t even imagine what she would say or do about that.
2026-09-29 15:18:11
3
shygirlmpz
shygirlmpz :
My grandma is like this…… she’s the reason I want to wait to get married until after she dies so I can’t be guilted to invite her…. But that runs the risk of my other grandparents dying before her and I want them to be at my wedding 😭
2026-10-09 19:26:32
1
heyitslunagrey
Luna Grey :
When my mom found out I didn’t invite her to my wedding she had a massive tantrum about it and proved exactly why I didn’t include her
2026-09-30 17:34:26
3
denise.arneson6
Denise Arneson :
If it didn’t have to be a positive special event. I remember when my son had to go in for some hip surgery during adolescence because he grew faster than his body could keep up with and his hip dislocated itself. I was so worried that she was going to make this about her and talk to all of the stuff, and I simply told her that She wasn’t coming with me and that nobody wanted to hear about all of her illnesses and conditions that this was about the child or what he needed and not her. She was not happy with me.
2026-09-29 03:18:19
9
defenseattorneymeow
defense attorney meow :
Ugh. I had this type of mom. I called her when I got engaged despite being VERY low contact and she said she wished I wouldn't rush into marriage. We had been together for five years and I was in my late 30s. I went back to no contact after that.
2026-09-29 13:15:14
7
mandylawandart
MandyLawAndART :
Your poor rash. I dislike your mother too. She sounds as awful as mine.
2026-09-29 02:59:36
7
princessofpeyton
PrincessofPeyton :
I have three narcissists in my life that were constantly competing to be awful at every event.( Mom, Dad, sister)I started having anaphylactic issues every time I was around them. It took me about six months to figure out it was them that was causing it.
2026-09-29 06:44:08
5
kristieirvin7
peaceful living :
This is my experience also. No contact for 8 years and my only regret is that I didn't do it sooner.
2026-09-29 15:58:00
1
rosierrt64
rosrt 🇪🇦 :
I wish I had cut contact when my oldest was young.
2026-09-29 10:00:45
1
sallygreenhalgh1
Koolaid Mom :
Did your Dad know how she treated you? Is he still alive? If yes do u keep in contact with him?
2026-09-29 13:37:58
2
juliewillden0
juliewillden0 :
Good for you! She was awful to you.
2026-09-29 18:53:47
1
hoosiersanta
Hoosier Santa :
😳😳😳
2026-10-04 15:32:46
1
To see more videos from user @jackolopeandhuckleberry, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About