@daraghfleming: Men being silent needs to stop. Silence is enforced by shame. You’re shamed for speaking, calling problematic behaviour out. You’re made to believe that you’re not supposed to talk up. This is how the patriarchy controls men. So we need to call out other men who are saying fucked up shit. It feels uncomfortable to do this by design. But we need to accept this discomfort and do it if anything is to change. Because I know so many lads who disagree with things their friends say, but say nothing. #poetry #poem #spokenword
I don’t write poetry but I wrote one on this topic a couple of years ago that ends with “It’s not all men but we can’t tell the difference in the dark”. Yours is fantastic - thank you
2026-09-29 11:07:02
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thatguyshaz 🆘🇺🇸 :
Nah it’s all of us till it’s none of us
2026-09-30 14:45:16
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Jules🦋🔵 :
It's not all men but it could be any man. ✌️
2026-09-29 13:31:40
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Sam 🐾🧶📚 :
Not all men but a snapchat was sent to 57 men and not one of them tried to help that woman.
2026-09-29 16:26:17
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poirieraudrey_🇨🇦 :
not all men, but his dad knew, his brother knew. and i was 8
2026-09-30 01:02:23
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🎀 Mellissa 🎀 :
Men on the internet: "its not all men"
Same men to their daughters: "be careful of men"
2026-09-30 11:49:14
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Car74isin :
Thank you….from a woman who’s been carrying keys between her knuckles, her whole life 👏👏❤️❤️
2026-09-29 12:33:55
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🇨🇦 ChaosCateers 🇨🇦 :
It's not all men. But it's fifty seven men in a group chat, seven who do it and fifty who say nothing
2026-09-30 05:40:08
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J :
My son (22) collects me from the bus after a night out. It's a 5 minute walk but there was a girl attacked in the lane beside our house when he was younger. I always say it's ok but he insists. It's a sad world we live in when a 5 minute walk is potentially not safe for a woman.
2026-09-29 10:47:50
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fieldsforevere42 :
This is amazing 🙌 well done sir 👏👏
2026-09-29 11:23:16
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Ur dad :
It’s not all men but it was my brother. It’s not all men but it was my mom’s friend. It’s not all men but it was every single man I’ve been with when I started hesitating. It’s not all men but all women have met that man.
2026-09-29 16:30:21
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Wilma68 :
This needs to be a message to Men
2026-09-30 09:54:23
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ManEater 🎀 :
Thank you. 🖤
2026-09-30 08:33:22
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Sharon Beardsley :
Laws are made for men, by men, to the benefit of men, without consideration or understanding or concern for the experience of women, girls, or children.
2026-09-29 21:43:49
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3catsinPrague :
Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-29 16:46:04
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Liz :
I just ordered a waterproof AirTag bracelet for myself. Setting the AirTag location and find my to my moms phone.
2026-09-30 00:49:40
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Erin Norberg :
Thank you.
2026-09-30 00:39:33
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Katty.Katya :
We live our entire lives as prey but we're supposed to prioritize their egos
2026-09-30 01:00:54
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Dustybun94 :
it's not all men, but all WOMEN are scared. all women are uncomfortable. ALL MEN need to do better.
2026-09-30 01:06:34
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Jodi Fritz807 :
It's not all men but those who aren't are always silent
2026-09-29 23:06:23
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Bleh :
“It’s not all men but it’s plenty” I’m using this every time someone says that shit to me.
2026-09-30 12:18:38
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stephanieanne496 :
I hope one day, my 12 year old son speaks up like you 💜
2026-09-29 14:46:37
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Family :
It’s not all men but enough we all carry a heavy heart
2026-09-30 00:08:59
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crispysquirrelbits1 :
how crazy is it that as women were not even allowed to carry even a deterrent like pepper spray etc..
2026-09-29 17:30:15
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