@heal.grow.become: You're a fixer.#masteringthenervoussystem #author #therapist #nervoussystemregulation

GiginessDladla :

Oooooh Sana if I had heard you years ago!!! 😭😭😭😭

Tinyiko Pelembe | L O L 🌱 :

This is me Everytime your video comes up!

Tdkay :

Chris i dont like you.... you always strip me 😑

mfundo❤️ :

" your fixer and not a lover"😭😩 oryt sharp

SmileySandy :

Tjooo being a firstborn 😭bob the builder…. A performer,pleaser,Miss Fix it🤦🏽‍♀️

Sandy :

l did ask and l never got any help. and l am currently slowing down

sia_zw⚜️👑 :

That opening line was a punch 🤛

Nosi :

You didn’t have to come for me like this hey.

Hope Aisha Mateyisi :

I knew my day would come. 😐

Miss Hope 🇿🇦 :

I had to fix myself, I moved from being anxiously attached, impulsive, people pleasing, masculine, performative and overthinking to being secure, able to express my myself, being able to say no and loving healthily, avoiding to overthink until I confront my partner to confirm what I am concerned about. I stopped wanting to leave the relationship every time I feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable conversations have to be had. I am so proud of myself, I am secure and in a relationship for the first time since I did therapy and stayed single for a full 2 years. I am with a secure man also for the first time in my life, I am not with a narcissistic or avoidant man like I always would be. My healing made me to be able to be attracted to a healthy person for a change.

Becoming_Nokwanda🌟 :

I'm not lover, I'm a what😭?

Irish-coffee ☕️ :

“Youve never experienced love” never been chosen … I am looking far back at my childhood . Trying to figure out which one friend loved chose me ! Am looking back at people I tried to date , a man I tried to build with. Am looking at my siblings or parents .. there’s no one !

Tracy :

why are you attacking me directly

Nommah_ :

"your capacity has been projected as their potential" 🫡

️ :

quick question Chris, when a fixer turns their attention to themselves where what they used to do to other is what do they to themselves, why does it result to actually one Lossing more and more of their close ones ? it turns like isolation to other ,other say depression but really you actually turned the page and decided to care for yourself out of selflessness rather than selfishness.

Mpilo__ :

I slowed down and kwa phela kanjalo

This is Kindness :

Everytime I log onto this app, you attack me😭

Pamela Ndlovu :

this is eye closing

Ms Mellow | FSTea 🔌 :

Eish

Tapiwa ✨❤️ | Ψ :

Hmmm, learnt it the hard way

La-rein. :

Oh like?

Nos Nos :

yoh Chrissssss

MajokaSammy :

Oh

alungile_mzobe :

“you settled for your capacity”

Nashnash2020 :