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Prettywings🇺🇸 :
Wait, You wanting to get better for yourself is supposed to be reassurance for her?
2026-10-05 06:02:50
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Ella Jaye :
You're saying things you're doing for yourself but what actions are you doing for the relationship that includes her? The man I love has this problem. He's very focused on his future. But sometimes the future never comes and he is nonexistent in the present & that causes me to question his capacity to sustain the current relationship we have. We support you building yourself, we're sure you'll get there but what about now?
2026-10-08 09:12:13
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brittneyjanaii :
‼️‼️‼️I think it’s about liking and loving her in the WAYS SHE WANTS TO BE LOVED not the way u think u should love her u running is not making her feel like it’s beneficial for what she needs ! Yea she’ll like it but that didn’t make her feel like the way she needs to be loved feel fulfilled ‼️it’s about asking her what will fulfill her love language and u execute it not just ask and do nothing ‼️‼️
2026-10-06 19:32:40
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sincerelynisxoxo :
Everything you’re saying is for self. What are you doing for her that reassures her. Something that you do, that does not benefit you at all. At the end of the day words can only go so far. She making you in yourself but are you investing in her?
2026-09-30 11:38:06
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Elena :
If you’re saying it to her and she not understanding you, I think y’all should have a sit down and you ask her “ How can I show up for so you are reassured”. In that conversation, I’d also express how she can show up for you. Sometimes saying it doesn’t help the person, sometimes actions don’t say it, so I’d try to figure out what way she needs it to be said.
2026-10-01 03:23:43
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Sierra🦋 :
“Not for you ofc”
2026-10-06 22:14:00
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Mikey🖤 :
How you show love and how she receives love are just a little different. Find out how she receives love🥰yall will be great
2026-10-09 15:53:45
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shay ᥫ᭡ :
okay then say that…. if she is a person of words and that something you are willing to deal with(if yall are mismatched when it comes to romantic styles) you can say little things like “you make me want to improve myself for you” “i am working to build a life for us” etc. at the end of the day we cannot read someone’s mind. let her know how you want to be loved and allow her to express her needs and desires. it isn’t that it’s not enough it’s that to her that doesn’t make HER feel connected. but that doesn’t mean you’re being wrong
2026-10-01 14:57:02
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Amari Jackson :
At some point from a girls perspective. She needs to work on that herself.
2026-09-29 15:17:56
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bingo.gabs :
Sometimes it’s just nice to hear
2026-10-12 00:34:58
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Kleets :
It’s ocd
2026-10-12 14:38:50
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sara :
What does she need reassurance about tho
2026-09-29 18:48:45
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Moni.Deshae :
She’s gonna drain you smh reassurance is fine, but needing it is a problem
2026-10-11 20:37:00
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Sal ❤️🔥 :
Leave her
2026-10-06 01:13:04
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❄️Lord Freezer❄️ :
That’s anxious attachment for yah.
2026-10-05 22:30:21
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arxannasky :
Friend… looking good isn’t going to reassure her emotionally… have a convo with your girl so you are able to give her the reassurance she needs instead of what you think reassurance should look like for her.
2026-10-11 14:30:35
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𑣲ʏαɴ :
i have this problem and it be more the reassurance it’s some deeper yall need a in person convo.
2026-10-12 23:48:31
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Miktheechef :
You pouring into yourself & she’s suppose to somehow translate that into reassurance 😂 are y’all running together ? Are you actively communicating that the relationship is motivating to you?
2026-10-12 02:08:06
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chum. :
In my opinion, that means you’re not providing in ways that make her feel reassured. It’s more than words. It’s showing up in ways that she deem as important. People can blame it on attachments styles but sometimes the other person can’t or isn’t trying to understand the what the other person needs.
2026-10-22 03:05:03
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M s. C O O K Y :
Tell her. You “doing” things “to be better for her” does not translate. You men tend to think that women should just know because of your actions. No, you need to open your mouth and say it.
2026-10-02 00:14:22
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Ricky B :
This was triggering lmao
2026-10-20 22:17:46
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🌙 E M M i 🥀 :
You’re not speaking her language yet expecting her to understand yours?
2026-10-19 22:09:38
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naitasia. :
Sounds like it’s about you.
2026-10-09 21:48:50
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THENICOLESIMONE :
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2026-09-29 21:57:45
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Qua | CLT Esthetician :
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2026-10-11 00:38:06
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