@seekersofnearness: Treat someone who has done something wrong to you, however bad it is, as you would wish Allah to treat you when you do something wrong, however bad it is. Reflect on what Allah says: "Let them forgive and overlook. Do you not wish that Allah should forgive you?" (24:22) - Habib Ali al-Jifri ‘How can someone forgive and pardon people who have wronged him?’ - Answered by Habib Umar bin Hafiz We can attain praiseworthy traits and rid ourselves of blameworthy traits with a combination of knowledge and action. We should thus remember the greatness of pardoning and forgiving people and the reward for doing so. We should reflect upon examples of the forbearance of the Prophet ﷺ and the pious, love them for the sake of Allah, and then force ourselves to forgive those who have wronged us and to treat them well. Speaker : Shaykh Abdal Hakim Murad #forgive #overlook #advice #reconcile #family