@oldmanwisdom_: I’m probably going to get some hate for this, but “a cheater never changes their spots” is about as outdated as my granny’s knickers. People f*** up. They make bad decisions. They hurt people. But good people can also learn from the shit they’ve done, grow up and never do it again. Not every cheater changes. But saying nobody can? I think that’s absolute rubbish. What do you think? #cheating #relationshipadvice #relationships #datingadvice #unpopularopinion
Some people can change but not all , and give them an inch they will take a mile , and I regret giving mine a chance
2026-09-29 13:11:06
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missy :
You’re speaking facts if you do it once it’s a mistake not a personality x
2026-09-29 14:32:13
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MissNiki :
I agree, when you’re younger yes, you do stupid stuff, you don’t think of how your actions affect others, , it’s a learning curve, we should learn from our mistakes, it’s the best way to grow as a person…. However, someone who cheats when they’re in their 30’s 40’s 50’s + will never change, they will always lie and cheat
2026-10-03 07:55:47
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Zo Zo 🌊 🌊 :
A question for you if you don’t mind ….you say age changes you and yes I get that BUT What age is it that your able to change from 🤔.What age are you saying cheaters should change by ??
2026-10-01 16:01:17
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Bubbles :
Sorry, I would not give second chance if he cheated. If he cheated on one he could do it again. Lies - depending on lies, adultery never forgive
2026-10-12 17:47:59
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Jessd78 :
Wow behave kids were never told so it’s a pattern .. but I think British kids learn 🇬🇧 cheated on lady I’ve taught my kids different after they saw how it was with me both my kids are living life
2026-09-29 21:23:12
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jo.h967 :
👍 agreed
2026-10-04 20:05:42
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Ema Lukos :
Yes, you are right
2026-09-29 22:13:07
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Trish :
Totally depends on the individual tbh , I know some who carried on into their later years cheating, and some who actually realised their mistakes and finally settled down.
2026-10-15 16:56:26
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Sarah Banford-Lawrence :
I agree, you're absolutely right.
2026-09-29 13:33:59
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Sal :
Perfect - should always allow yourself time to reflect, learn and grow. We’ve all done that one thing - learn to forgive yourself, you’ll be stronger for it.
2026-10-05 04:06:08
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Lucia Năstase :
Cea mai tare comparație 👍
2026-09-29 17:55:44
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Annie :
Don’t give then the chance to change, cheat once, in the bin!
2026-09-30 12:45:12
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Corina :
👍
2026-09-29 13:26:25
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Randy Heidi :
Some people never changes 🫣
2026-10-13 18:43:17
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nayyy777 :
I don’t hate you for saying the truth
2026-09-29 14:21:43
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Ju :
Good people make poor choices and do bad things but I do sincerely believe that SOME people do realise the error of their ways and change for the better never ever wanting to hurt others again … as for my grannies Knix - can’t remember them 😁😁
2026-10-11 12:18:28
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❌️ Bushbaby ❌️ :
Cheating is a break of adult trust.
2026-09-29 14:04:20
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Nancy blue :
Hello 👋 yes I think your talking rubbish hears why cheating isent a mistake falling of a bike is a mistake I was with my first partner seven years had never cheat I was to mutch in love with him I left him go to live is dream have been on my own 16yrs now if a hero comes along so be it
2026-09-29 18:34:11
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shaz :
Yes some people do learn from their mistakes, but there are a lot that don’t change. It’s not age that changes people it’s choice
2026-10-02 07:47:53
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MIMI 🕯️ :
👏👏👏
2026-09-29 13:34:23
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❤️InGa❤️ :
well when my ex cheated on me he was 43 ,so mature enough to understand what he's doing and that was his choice,not mistake for sure ,bring woman in family house etc so people like him never change for sure
2026-10-09 14:14:32
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Six Hounds :
why do u keep saying ex military?
2026-10-01 18:23:47
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