@daveramsey: Money fights in a marriage are almost never really about money. Hazel called in to The Ramsey Show looking for advice. She's in a blended family, and her husband struggles to pay for things for the three teenagers she has from her first marriage.
two things can be true at once. the first ex husband needs to be held accountable and taken to court for child support. the second husband needs to view the boys as his children, even if they are biologically not his, and step up
2026-09-29 22:06:05
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MrAxegrinder :
He made the biggest mistake of his life
2026-10-01 20:53:49
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Maverick :
My honest guess is that he is using this as a tactic to get Mom to get harder on the older Childrens Dad. Because I'm guessing that Mom doesn't push the older kids dad when he refused to pay child support. I'm not saying it's right. But that's kind of what I think is happening.
2026-09-29 21:15:22
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🌷🌿Granny With A Fanny🌿🌷 :
Take your first husband to court and have his wages garnished. Your second husband should not have to pay for them. He can assist you with your half of the expenses but should not foot the entire bill. I went through this with my husband and his two children from his past marriage
2026-09-29 21:10:30
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Dagny Taggart :
It’s rational to be upset about the problem. It’s abuse to take it out on the children. Take it out on the adult responsible and let the kids feel loved. That is the only way.
2026-09-30 23:05:17
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Phillip Pilgrim :
Elizabeth is definitely worth checking out.
2026-09-29 18:12:29
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JohnnyB good :
Omg wow
2026-09-30 22:40:10
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KELSIE :
My dad was 18 when I was born, and he wasn’t even with my mom consistently but still paid for my older two brothers and paid my moms bills. They’ve been married now for 28 years. He wouldn’t punish the older boys because their dad never stepped up.
2026-09-29 16:14:48
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kmc1018 :
I can understand that he’s pissed at the teens father for being a deadbeat
2026-09-29 17:27:26
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@sxylmp :
Aaww that poor mama!! Wishing you the best babe, take that ex-husband to court girl!
2026-09-29 18:09:48
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Bernarda white :
Elizabeth has been amazing from the very beginning
2026-09-29 18:02:10
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Olivia :
Stop fighting and start talking!
2026-09-29 14:16:08
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Donna Wilson :
Elizabeth Your support has been priceless
2026-09-29 18:00:14
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Alan Harris :
Elizabeth has been nothing short of incredible
2026-09-29 18:04:52
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Jennifer Jago :
this is all too common
2026-09-29 14:44:22
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Bernarda white :
Elizabeth I’m so glad I got started.
2026-09-29 18:02:26
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Bernarda white :
Choosing Elizabeth was the smartest financial decision I’ve made
2026-09-29 18:02:15
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Donna Wilson :
Elizabeth I’m grateful for the opportunity and everything I’ve achieved so far.
2026-09-29 18:00:02
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🧊 drx_co 🥶 :
He signed up for the package deal not knowing how her ex was going to act in the future. Now that he has biological children to care for he's become resentful. Money may be tight. What it comes down to is HOW much does he love this woman, his wife. Thick AND thin.
2026-09-29 17:40:31
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Alan Harris :
Every step of this journey with Elizabeth has been worth it
2026-09-29 18:04:45
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aprima_oficial 🩵 :
Im sorry for her. This must be so heartbreaking. 💔 reason I don’t wanna have a kid with my current husband. I’m so afraid he’d would treat our kid better.
2026-09-30 01:30:44
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Tiggs :
How about legally going after the father so he is contributing? That would go a long way I bet with the current husband. But all in all, her current husband needs to be supportive not vindictive.
2026-09-30 13:34:46
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