@unpunishablewoman: Pay attention when someone encourages you to accept relationship risks or circumstances they would never recommend for their own daughter. The advice people give when the consequences belong to you can reveal very different standards from the advice they give when someone they deeply value will have to live with the outcome.
Esp the marriage part 😭 if you’ve been single for long as a lady they will encourage you to marry “anything” and they will coerce you into it even. They had this lady who had not even been with a man before marry a former drunkard who lived wild and had kids and had just joined JW… did he not infect her with HiV?? 💔
2026-09-29 15:33:15
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medusa_D1 :
Thank you! I’ve beeeen saying this for years! That ppl want you to accept & engage things that they don’t even want for their children, but i see that as hate for me cos why do you want something for me, that you wouldn’t want for ppl you actually love
2026-09-29 15:58:50
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gabriele 🫶 :
You should have your own standards, boundaries and self worth and don't give them up for pleasing others or a cheap ring 💯🤗
2026-10-03 03:42:25
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sewingwithchi :
Yep, it’s double standards
2026-09-29 15:16:14
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Yw :
Took Elara Vance arche type quiz because I was bored waiting for my food. Now I’m reading about why certain manifestation methods supposedly don’t suit me. This escalated quickly.
2026-09-30 15:22:25
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Rnbplay :
I don’t seek advice from pple
2026-09-30 08:38:22
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JEMZ.STONE :
Two of my friends marry men like that. No citizenship, no job or support system. I’m not closed to them anymore
2026-10-12 00:33:54
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Ate8eight :
“is sane… at the moment” 😂 I’m not sure if you mean to be funny, but you have some absolute banger lines that make me guffaw.
2026-09-29 21:59:39
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Kini1015❤️ :
I know women in this exact situation lmaoo
2026-10-10 12:09:38
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Becky Chemu :
my frien encouraged me to date the married man chasing me..and i get it, i do..but i asked myself whether she would give her daughter the same advice..
2026-10-11 07:48:15
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Fanta Reds95 :
yes yes and yes!!
2026-09-30 18:32:20
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Sip and gift :
People don’t really care
2026-10-02 23:15:29
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wildwolf🐺 :
I love your authenticity
2026-10-03 13:54:56
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Coomstress44 :
I wonder if the church does this because they think if they give a guy a wife, he will stay in the church and keep tithing. So it’s almost like the women is a bargaining chip. 😔
2026-10-01 05:50:49
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Elizabeth | Workplace Lawyer :
ADJOURNED 👩🏽⚖️
2026-09-29 17:58:45
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Onkabetse :
Exactly
2026-09-29 15:24:01
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spirit of the sea :
My own blood👌
2026-09-29 19:47:09
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Kazzer108 :
Omg yes THIS
2026-09-29 16:15:23
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abells80 :
Preaaaachhhhh
2026-09-29 17:32:06
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M :
Well Said, and can't be trusted either, and could destroy your life too.
2026-09-29 20:58:54
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cami :
That is such an outstanding point, I could bet money that every single woman can think of an example of a situation just like this.
2026-10-15 00:11:39
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GriseldaBlancoOfLagos :
REAL
2026-10-13 10:43:51
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Erin Braxton | Coffee No Cream :
so true
2026-10-03 00:35:47
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Maryanne Wairimu :
💯
2026-10-13 05:17:11
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Saint Lucy :
Facts
2026-09-29 17:57:29
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